On any of the donation threads where it came up and he replied to it, the most he ever did was some half hearted corporate PR “apology” (ironic)

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      Technically, they are controversial. There are people who support your right to live and there are people who dont support it

      If half of humans thought water was dangerous, drinking water would be a controversial topic

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        Its not black and white like that. There are people who support trans people but are concerned about the medicine and psychology, considering how young and mistake prone those fields are. Keep in mind there was a time where labotomies were defended in a similar way.

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            Probably not 1:1 but the point is that its risky when medicine moves too quickly, and human ego has proven to be an extremely potent force. I use extreme examples to make a point.

            Mainly what concerns me right now is that people who have concerns or questions about the medicine or science are routinely harassed and/or banned from trans communities. That, and the amount of faith the general public has in our understanding of psychology.

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              Probably not 1:1 but the point is that its risky when medicine moves too quickly

              Healthcare has been moving in this direction since at least… oh, that’s right, the Third Reich. It’s not moving too fast right now, it’s been moving too slow for the last century.

              Mainly what concerns me right now is that people who have concerns or questions about the medicine or science are routinely harassed and/or banned from trans communities.

              1. Which trans communities? There are some that are open to educating others. There are some that are not. It is absolutely not a trans person or community’s responsibility to educate you, and sometimes people want to have a space to exist without constantly justifying that existence to others. Even good faith questions can be exhausting when it’s your life that is being questioned.

              2. Exactly what questions do you consider to be valid, good faith questions, presented to people or communities that are open to this discussion, and yet result in harassment?

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                Even this attitude of educating others, like every trans person is suddenly an expert in psychology or something. The way you frame it furthers the exclusivity of the group, which is odd to me because I would think trans people would want more people in their communities.

                I’m not interested in going over specific instances with you, sorry. If thats what you need then you win the argument.

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                  Even this attitude of educating others, like every trans person is suddenly an expert in psychology or something.

                  The education isn’t a teacher to a student. It’s a person revealing their life experience to others. Maybe they don’t want to constantly talk about their life experience with people who might not understand.

                  The way you frame it furthers the exclusivity of the group, which is odd to me because I would think trans people would want more people in their communities.

                  Why would you think that should be a universal thing, for communities to want to constantly expand and include people that may not share the same values as the community?

                  Would you expect every religious person to answer every concern or question that you have about their religion? Would you walk into a church, and expect the average parishioner to hear your concerns about the afterlife, and questions about inconsistencies in the bible?

                  If you don’t know how to sew, and will never sew a garment in your life, would you walk into a sewing club and expect them to welcome you in?

                  Or would you understand that maybe they’re in their own place, and don’t want to talk to you?

                  I repeat:

                  sometimes people want to have a space to exist without constantly justifying that existence to others.

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              because the science is there and they keep dringing up the one study that has been wildly discredited.

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                What science? Which field? I’m not talking about disagreeing over whether gender dysphoria exists, I know it does. The discussion to be had is ehat can we do to fix and/or prevent it from happening. Its very hard to have these conversations in trans spaces though.

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                  The discussion to be had is ehat can we do to fix and/or prevent it from happening. Its very hard to have these conversations in trans spaces though.

                  That’s because those conversations belong in healthcare spaces. Academic spaces. Political spaces.

                  Would you walk into an NA meeting, and expect them to welcome you and talk to you about the fentanyl crisis?

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          There are also people who arent on either extreme, but that doesnt really matter in the context of deciding if a subject is controversial or not

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      they are not bigot, they just dont live in an echo chamber.

      whether you like it or not, there’s lots people not thinking like you. I’m not one of them, just to clarify before I suddenly become a bigot, but people like that do exist, in masses

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        If you “have an opinion about transgender people” that involves taking away their rights, or putting them in harms way and that prioritises the needs of everyone else first, and the needs of trans people last, if at all, then you have a bigoted opinion.

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          and where exactly was that my opinion? it is not an opinion, that such people exist. that is a sad and hard fact.

          but sure, kill the messenger, call me a bigot for pointing out reality.

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            I wasn’t talking about you, I was talking in general, and the specific context was the person earlier in this discussion, who you explicitly stated is not a bigot.

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              So where exactly did the earlier guy state that was his opinion? He got called a bigot simply immediately after calling the issue controversial, not because he said he believed the things that you claimed.

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                Again, if you “have an opinion about transgender people” that involves taking away their rights, or putting them in harms way and that prioritises the needs of everyone else first, and the needs of trans people last, if at all, then you have a bigoted opinion. It’s a universal statement.

                The person you were replying to described Nutomics position as “It’s hard for me to imagine a more agreeable and reasonable statement.” And as a reminder, Nutomics post was a statement complaining about pride flags on public buildings, calling transgender women “men” and stating that trans folk are a conspiracy/distraction pushed by the bourgeoisie, despite rich conservatives being largely responsible for the wave of trans hatred we’re currently experiencing.

                That is pure transphobia.

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                  True, he did say that on another comment, but the argument given here for why he is a bigot is not that comment, its the fact that he said this is a controversial topic.

                  If the guy who accused him of being a bigot wasn’t simply referring to his argument about the controversial nature but based on his actually bigoted views, then he should make it clearer.

                  We should have better standards of communication when accusing people of being a bigot, because badly delivered sane messages can actually sound pretty insane to people who weren’t in the loop from the start.

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        A lot of people thought that blacks shouldn’t be allowed to go to school.

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      Your rights to participate in inherently sexist institutions that feeds off athletes who end up with a broken body at 20?

      Lol liberals have the weirdest kinks.

      More transgenders billionnaire please /s