Turks, Kurds, whoever else resides in the Turkish Republic, we need them numbers upp

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    I think this is much more likely to be due to stigma of reporting, how likely it is to be recorded, and perhaps legal classifications changing which statistics bin things get tallied in; than it is to be an accurate reflection of prevalence on actual instances.

    For instance, in the US police are trained in the Duluth Model of domestic violence. This uses the lens of men’s structural power in society, which can erase the situation of individuals. It also struggles to deal with queer couples without projecting inappropriate gender stereotypes.

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      If you think that kind of sexism is not as rampant in the counties form the top post I’m afraid your world view is a bit too optimistic. I think it’s entirely possible that it’s correct just because those countries are top scorers in domestic violence, from any side.

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    That’s because they’re always getting into love Pyramids, which are love triangles but in 3D

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    Once Egypt’s wives stole chancla techniques from Latin America and repurposed them for use with thick, leather sandals, they became unstoppable.

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      pov me when I put Hummus on a Taco

      (also you might be right cus the article says “The UN crime Statistics Report says that Egyptian Wives not only use their hands but also use different items such as pins, slippers, shoes, weapons, belts, needles, utensils to beat their husbands“)

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        In part yes, but also make sure to communicate empathy, support and resources while joking.

        It ain’t no joking matter. But some boundaries must be crossed both to deliver change and stand the tyranny of reality.

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        while i also find it funny that the roles are reversed int his instance, saying that abuse is not that deep is… questionable

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          Sane people, in my internet?!

          Abuse sucks in general, there is more domestic violence and sexual abuse done to women than to men, lots of traditional Muslim countries have very traditional (male-favouring) gender roles, subverting expectations can be funny. What more is there to say?

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        it’s not that deep

        Says the one who has to put layers upon layers of justifications over the simple statement “domestic violence is bad” to make it sound good if one gender does it.

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    I’ve spent 3 weeks of my life in Egypt. In that time I was groped and inappropriately touched about as often as in the entire rest of my life.

    I’m not excusing anything, but I have to say I do kinda understand it.