• Hackerman_uwu@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    It isn’t tolerating misogyny, it’s pointing out misogyny and ridiculing misogynists.

    It’s OK if you don’t like how that’s being done, and it’s OK if you can’t understand the nuance but policing my speech unchallenged is not what is going to happen.

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      1 day ago

      I think I got the nuance behind ‘bigoted man I disagree with is actually a woman because women amirite?’.

      I’m trans, and like actually hate these people, they deserve ridicule. However, if I’m willing to tolerate bigotry on my behalf towards people that are in some out-group, there’s no guarantee that some day I won’t be among that out-group and subsequently targeted by that type of bigotry. Do you understand the issue I’m raising?

      I can’t tolerate people misgendering Caitlen Jenner or Blair white because while they suck, it only contributes to an environment where that type of insult is then considered acceptable.

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          16 hours ago

          You’re the type to get weirdly sexual and homophobic when it’s people you disagree with. Not really interested in what you have to say tbh.

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              16 hours ago

              You’re the type to get weirdly sexual and homophobic when it’s people you disagree with. Not really interested in what you have to say tbh.

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                  15 hours ago

                  you don’t seem like you handle people disagreeing with you well. you’ve already called me schizophrenic because I had an issue with your history of homophobic comments, only to be like “well they’re people I don’t like politiclly so it’s okay”

                  that was my original point, so thank you for demonstrating the behavior I guess

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        16 hours ago

        I think I got the nuance behind ‘bigoted man I disagree with is actually a woman because women amirite?’.

        Nope.

        It goes like this: ‘bigoted man is bigoted because this will aggravate his orange tits. If bigoted man was not bigoted it would not be possible to rip on him like this.’

        Put another way: ‘I am a bigot, said John.’

        If that doesn’t clarify it then I’m out of patience to explain further.

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            2 minutes ago

            That’s cool I don’t need hear any more explanations.

            Edit: worth noting that nowhere in this thread does this user talk about how language they don’t like feels to them. They just repeatedly state what it “is” condescendingly. And then they intentionally troll people pushing back on that. Funny enough, they accidentally confirmed they are trolling by admitting they are an ESL but then insisting on what expressions mean and sealioning me about them.