• Tattorack@lemmy.world
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    21 days ago

    No thank you. I don’t have the time, the money, or the energy to go looking for a girlfriend… Or spend it on a whole other human and their unique set of needs.

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      21 days ago

      What if I were to tell you you’re supposed to get some of that back in a relationship as it moves towards becoming a partnership?

      Or that hanging out with them, aka a date, is supposed to be fun?

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        20 days ago

        If you feel like it’s fun or that you need a partnership, then go ahead. My time is already divided as it is, and I just don’t want it even more divided.

        I hardly have any time left to do the things I want to do, to study art and practice 3D. Any time I spend on other things most certainly will not be taken away from my job hours, but will be from my free time.

        So I don’t want to waste time and money trying to find someone in the first place (most people are incredibly unitereresting), and then waste even more time trying to make it work.

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            20 days ago

            If you’re happy with your life, that’s perfect!

            As people are usually social creatures, it’s only natural if someone is in truth not happy about this. There are exceptions of course.

            However, my comment was totally misplaced and condescending. My bad. Didn’t think much about it. I’m truly sorry about this.

            I’ve deleted the comment.

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            20 days ago

            You’re right. I’m sorry. I was just joking, but it’s not okay to do that by picking on someone who lives a harmless life.

            I guess I felt a bit offended, since he sounded rather aggressive and condescending. But, not my business. Doesn’t affect me nor anyone else besides himself alone.

            Thanks for pointing that out. I’ve deleted my comment.