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CraigOhMyEggo@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 1 year ago

What's the most seeming trivial thing you'll turn down a GF or BF for?

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What's the most seeming trivial thing you'll turn down a GF or BF for?

CraigOhMyEggo@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 1 year ago
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  • pastabatman@lemmy.world
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    Incompatible taste in music. My taste is the benchmark they have to meet and I will not compromise, obviously.

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      this is why i like to date people who don’t care about music.

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    Removed by mod

    • MeDuViNoX@sh.itjust.works
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      So, if I meet all other criteria, but I quit smoking in 2017 I’m out?

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        Removed by mod

    • Mesa@programming.dev
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      ^This guy dates.

  • jordanlund@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Smoking.

    • Vanth@reddthat.com
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      This one got me absolutely destroyed on reddit once upon a time. I have asthma and allergies, but apparently it’s really because I’m classiest and racist. It was a fascinating thread.

      • DaPorkchop_@lemmy.ml
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        …how is smoking supposed to be connected to race? In any way?

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          Menthols maybe? And that it’s harder for people of a lower socioeconomic status to quit smoking? Otherwise, no idea.

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            Yeah, that was my assumption. Poor people are more likely to smoke, black people are more likely to be stuck in a cycle of poverty, therefore…?

            I don’t disagree with those two sentences, but then making the jump to personal health and personal dating preferences is quite the leap.

            I think someone got butthurt that they didn’t have a shot with a random lady on the internet they would never meet, got defensive, and the too-much-time-online types ran with it.

    • otp@sh.itjust.works
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      Not at all trivial!

      • Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        For some it is. Sadly

  • grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world
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    I couldn’t date a cop

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      My sister in law is a cop when she’s not moonlighting as EMT or Fire. Met my wife Through her as the mutual friend. Her whole family is great.

      I just don’t know where this toxic generalization comes from.

      • RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world
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        What you want to do is hit back, and read a few headlines. I guarantee you’ll figure it out. I have faith in you.

      • corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca
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        People who downvote EMTs and firefighters have a special place in hell.

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          People who downvote American cops have a special place in heaven.

      • ChexMax@lemmy.world
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        Do you actually not know where the generalization comes from, or do you just not like it?

      • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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        Probably just salty about the tear gas. Maybe they just can’t get over being beaten to near hospitalization with a bicycle for protesting peacefully.

    • JeSuisUnHombre@lemm.ee
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      That’s just a safety tip

      • laughterlaughter@lemmy.world
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        Just the tip.

    • MeDuViNoX@sh.itjust.works
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      Something something, fuck the police!

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        Not like that

  • nikaaa@lemmy.world
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    wearing makeup or earrings

    turns out i just don’t like that

  • weeeeum@lemmy.world
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    At least to the people around me, frequent substance us.

    • EpeeGnome@lemm.ee
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      I would argue that doesn’t qualify as trivial.

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        What my friends would say to me is “who cares if they do a bit of weed (understatement), or get drunk once or twice a month?”

        Personally, if you need substances to have fun, you’re boring.

  • stanleytweedle@lemmy.world
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    Uses tabs instead of spaces.

    • Teon@kbin.social
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      Drinks Tab in Space.

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      I’m using both a the same time, one tab, two space, another tab…

      This way everyone is happy.

      • stanleytweedle@lemmy.world
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        You’re a maniac- in the best way possible.

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        deleted by creator

    • n3m37h@sh.itjust.works
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      But once they go through the compiler they’re essentially the same!

      // think people missed the reference

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        But I don’t want a GF who’s gone through a compiler

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          but she will be optimised for your hardware!

  • humorlessrepost@lemmy.world
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    Uses spaces instead of tabs.

    • bionicjoey@lemmy.ca
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      Username checks out

  • well5H1T3@lemmy.world
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    Motor mouth

  • CalcProgrammer1@lemmy.ml
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    Mixes spaces and tabs in the same line

    • taladar@sh.itjust.works
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      So really any tab user in any language requiring alignment then?

    • Mr Fish@lemmy.world
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      That’s not a trivial thing, that’s a war crime

  • tiramichu@lemm.ee
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    Littering.

    When someone carelessly throws their trash on the ground, that says a huge amount about their respect for other people, their feelings about the environment, and even their views on social equality.

    It’s a tiny thing, but an immediate dealbreaker.

    People who throw their trash on the ground are the same people who yell and get mad at minimum-wage staff, while those staff hold back tears. They are the people who take more food at a buffet restaurant than they could ever even eat. They are the people who think the world and everyone in it owes them whatever they want, but without ever giving anything back.

    I bet we all know a person whose car looks like a scary biohazard of old drive-through cups they haven’t cleaned yet, but I’d much rather date that person than someone who throws it all out the window.

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      I think whether or not they litter and whether or not they return the shopping cart are two good ways to judge someone’s character.

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    Eats with their mouth open or similar mouth noises. It’s not misophonia, you’re just a degenerate scumbag and I will end your line!

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    Driving slow in the left hand lane

    • DavidDoesLemmy@aussie.zone
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      That’s where you’re ment to be if you’re slow.

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        I was going to say only criminals drive slowly in the left lane, but then I saw. Carry on!

      • cristo@lemmy.world
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        You drive on the wrong side of the road, for you its the right lane

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          If I drove on the other side of the road I would have a lot of accidents.

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        I’m assuming they’re North American.

  • Chahk@beehaw.org
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    Treats servers badly. Both in restaurants and in IT infrastructure.

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      That’s not trivial at all!

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    Being unnecessarily wasteful with food. Not even attempting to save it or tossing all away over some easily resolvable issue like “I’m not hungry right now” Throws in trash.

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