I think it’s important to understand that gender identity isn’t so binary and is much more complicated than you are or you aren’t.
I think the recoiling in horror is a bit extreme but I can definitely feel uneasy to be offered random drugs in a pub.
I mean… Recoiling in horror sounds a little bit like Woman Bad tm had something to do with it.
Being gender curious (or having Gender Imposter Syndrome) is a sign you’re not entirely 100% SuperCis, but people’s emotional reactions be complicated yo
Edit: As others said, there’s also the “take unverifiable drugs from someone (friend or not) in a bar setting”. And the “the post uses hyperbole for effect because memes”.
Complicated indeed…
Yeah there’s more to it. I’m just a random cis guy who came across this post on his feed. I’m definitely not an egg, but no way I’d react like that. I’d probably be bewildered that someone would offer me their medicine, but a severe reaction like that sounds very weird.
Well yeah fair enough. I posted this because I read it as hyperbole but I could be wrong. I just felt like this kind of represented the idea that the act of questioning your identity isn’t an indicator of your “actual” identity. It just shows that you’re open to understanding yourself better.
If I were better with words I could explain my thought process better but the best I can do is communicate in memes.
True. I’m not trans, I feel ambivalent about my gender but I certainly don’t think I’d recoil in horror. Probably just say no thanks. I don’t take anything that isn’t prescribed for me or won’t actively interfere with the cocktail of meds I need to take for a chronic illness.
I’m a pretty laid-back person, but I’d likely recoil. It’s the idea of someone threatening me with a pill at a pub that might be kinda triggering. Nearly any other reasonable approach in any other situation, I’d be willing to have a conversation and consider the options.
No one was threatened though. It was a group of friends and I presume the person with the tablets told them what it was and offered them to try it. For someone who says they’re laid back you used quite an emotive word (threatened) to misconstrue the described situation.
You take that back! I’m the most laid back person ever!
But yup, you’re probably right. A) I definitely chose the wrong word with “threatened” and should have been more deliberate in my choice with something like “tried to prove a point to me by offering me prescription drugs” and B) For the life of me, I don’t remember typing “I’m a pretty laid-back person,” I meant to say “I’m often told I’m a pretty laid-back person” but must have slipped my mind while I was getting dressed to go to the park. (Joke’s on you, VaultBoyNewVegas, I was Pooh Bearing it when I wrote my comment!)
Anyway, short reply long: I read your comment and was like, “what’s this person talking about? I know I’m not laid back.” You’re right and I mistyped. I’m often told I’m a pretty laid back person, but I don’t agree with it one bit. I’ve got too many suicide attempts in my past and too many mind-altering prescriptions for me to label myself as “laid-back.” Sorry for the confusion and semi-sorry for making you read this long-ass comment, if you made it this far.
Written like a true
person.
Mad respect.
It’s possible, but cis men who are totally comfortable may have never even considered it what so ever. So the recoiling can also be from the very prospect of questioning something that they’ve never had an inkling to question. Introspection on a deep existential level is a little scary, after all, so tapping a new vein regardless of what comes out can be off-putting.
Will one pill by itself do anything? I thought it was more of a prolonged course of treatment.
I took one pill and my dick propelled off. It just flew off got damnit. I still miss it.
This is exactly why you are supposed to take the first pill under doctor supervision.
Noone told me, I got it offered in a pub
It depends.
Yeah, you won’t get any sort of externally visible changes from a single dose, but for some trans people that first dose can still be a life-changing experience.
They don’t warn you about it in the informed consent documentation, but for me that first day on HRT brought on an almost overwhelming feeling of gender euphoria. It was like a part of myself that had been missing since puberty finally fell into place. The weight of 25 years of repressed dysphoria fell from my shoulders and I couldn’t stop smiling, couldn’t even walk across a room without breaking into a little dance.
It took the better part of a week to start seeing some physical changes, and that was mostly in skin texture.
I tried to stay away from hrt but oof you’re making it hard… That sounds amazing.
Sounds like the euphoria could also be from feeling relief that you finally have access to it?
that’s definitely part of it, but sex hormones interact with* neurotransmitters and the mental/emotional stuff tends to hit first, before any physical effects take place.
Not countering what you experienced, but sex hormones are not neurotransmitters. There may be some interactions with the neurotransmitter system but it they are not themselves.
yep, that’s more accurate ty!
Good life advice is to not take random medication from people in pubs.
Good life advice is to not take random medication from people in pubs.
Ok dad jeeze.
Don’t forget to drink lots of water!
What a hydro homie!
But that’s where I find all the fun pharmaceuticals.
Yeah some girls offered to help shoot me up with e outside the gay bar. It’d be rude to refuse