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!egg_irl

!egg_irl is for widely relatable memes about questioning one’s gender or being an egg (a trans person in denial) as well as other eggy topics.

If you are looking for a place to discuss something specific to you or especially if you need help or are in crisis, we have communities and resources that can support you linked at the bottom of this sidebar.

General Rules:

No bigotry.
No spam, bots, or vote farming.

Rules on Content:

No reposts.
No personal-life posts, bingo cards, quizzes, selfies, “trans/not trans” lists, picrew, or non-memes.
No visible names or usernames.
Do not post or link to pornography.

Rules on Post Titles and Tags:

Posts must be titled “egg_irl”. An emoji or two is OK, but they have to be between “egg” and “irl”.
Posts that assume the viewer’s gender and/or contain potentially triggering content must be spoilered and tagged at the beginning of the post title. Example content-warning tags that you can copy include the following:
- [CW: Assumes Viewer is Transmasc]
- [CW: Assumes Viewer is Transfem]
- [CW: Assumes Viewer is Nonbinary]
- [CW: Transphobia]
- [CW: Violence]
- [CW: Weapons/Firearms]
- [CW: Disturbing Imagery]
- [CW: Fictional Egging]
You may optionally include other tags, such as:
- [Transmasc Meme]
- [Transfem Meme]
- [Nonbinary Meme]
- [Gender-Nonspecific Meme]

Rules on Post Text:

If possible, include an image description for accessibility.
Add sources for art.

Rules on Comments

If a post is tagged with a specific gender identity, keep the conversation centered on that identity.
You must follow the Egg Prime Directive. You may not push or coerce people into identifying or not identifying a certain way. You must respect them as the gender they claim to identify as. In addition it is extremely in poor taste to make assumptions about other people’s identities based on external factors, we understand it cannot be helped but it is best not to as it can affect the way you treat others in noticeable ways. Read more about this decision here.
No Ewwphoria posts. Posts which contain misogyny, misandry, transmisogyny, transmisandry, or enbyphobia for the purpose of expressing euphoria are not allowed here. At best they bring anger to others, and at worst they may trigger people’s dysphoria. People who create such posts will have them removed and may be banned at moderator discretion.

Recommendations:

We strongly encourage you to include your pronouns in your account bio so that others know how to refer to you without misgendering you. If you’re questioning or unsure of your pronouns, that’s totally cool—just say so.

Sibling Meme Communities

!traa (or search for https://lemmy.ca/c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns in your instance if the link doesn’t work)

Sibling Non-Meme Communities

!transgender (or search for https://lemmy.ml/c/transgender in your instance if the link doesn’t work)
!trans (or search for https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/trans in your instance if the link doesn’t work)
!ftm (and transmasc) (or search for https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/ftm in your instance if the link doesn’t work)
!mtf (and transfem) (or search for https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/mtf in your instance if the link doesn’t work)
[email protected] (or search for https://lemmy.one/c/nonbinary in your instance if the link doesn’t work)
[email protected] (or search for https://beehaw.org/c/lgbtq_plus in your instance if the link doesn’t work)
[email protected] (or search for https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/lgbtq_plus in your instance if the link doesn’t work)

Community Resources:

The Trevor Project / 1-866-488-7386 — A US-based crisis prevention and intervention hotline and community
TransLifeLine / 1-877-565-8860 — A US-based trans peer support hotline
The Gender Dysphoria Bible — An in-depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria
Trans Resources — A directory of resources for trans, non-binary, and gender-non-conforming people
LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory — A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers
Trans Resistance Network — A US-based mutual-aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination
TLDEF’s Trans Health Project — Advice about insurance claims for trans healthcare procedures
TransLifeLine’s ID change Library — A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document

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Modlog

Blåhaj Lemmy

A general purpose lemmy instance for gender diverse folk and their allies.

Blåhaj Lemmy

Blåhaj Lemmy is brought to you by the kind folk at Blåhaj Zone, and while anyone is free to register for an account here, please bear in mind that this is a server that is very protective of our minority members and bigotry of any variety will be squashed with great prejudice.

We have several alternative lemmy frontends you can use. Just login with your regular blahaj login details.

We have a public matrix channel for all Blahaj users at #blahaj:chat.blahaj.zone

We also have a matrix channel for gender diverse folk and our allies! If you’re already a matrix user, you can head straight to our application room https://matrix.to/#/#gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone, or by searching for #gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone from within your matrix client.

If you’re new to matrix, you can find some more details and an instruction video on how to get up and running here https://chat.blahaj.zone/c/genderverse/

Community Guidelines

Blåhaj Lemmy is a space where everyone should feel able to participate safely, and to that end, our community is built on the guiding philosophies of empathy, inclusion and acceptance.

Empathy

We want our community members to be guided by compassion and empathy for others.

Examples of behaviour that are contrary to this philosophy are personal attacks, insults, doxing etc. If your comment is designed to hurt someone, this isn’t the space for it.

Inclusion and Acceptance

Embracing inclusion and acceptance means listening when people tell you who they are and what their needs are. It means not telling people that you know their experiences better than they do. It means not gatekeeping experiences of identities of others. It means no bigotry such as racism, sexism, anti LGBT commentary, ableism etc. It means doing your best to ensure that you don’t over-talk the voices of folk who don’t share your privileges.

Supporting Blåhaj Lemmy

After much hesitation, we have a Ko Fi to enable people to help with supporting some of the running costs associated with our instances.

Providing a safe space for our community is the goal, so please only consider donating if you are in a position to do so without any financial stress.

Mascot and logo

Find out about our mascot Shonky (they/them) who appears on our site logo here.

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