I’ve been using a 3rd party client to access posts on Lemmy. I loved the experience back when Reddit allowed 3rd party apps. But I felt the feed was a bit…one sided.
I figured it was just because I was new to Lemmy, but then I sorted posts by New.
Nothing but trans anime porn. It’s like the only people that came to Lemmy were the people that got kicked out of Reddit circles because all they could think about was trans anime porn.
Maybe I signed up on the wrong instance? But I don’t think that’s the problem.
How are so many people trying to treat Lemmy as a balanced alternative to Reddit?
What the fuck?!
I’d imagine the typical Lemmy user to be an American college/university student. I haven’t personally noticed any trans leaning in the content here but anime/hentai definitely is disporpotionately represented.
A lot of Germans and Russians here
Mfw I’m finding out that the gay furry instance that is my home instance has less porn than ops instance
It’s heavily dependent on your instance. It kinda sucks to be honest sometimes.
All I can suggest is making liberal use of the block community function.
Why the down votes on this lol
Because I’m kinda infamous here, I’m one of like 3 conservatives here and I have a habit of browsing /all.
People like to downvote everything I say, I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s botted at this point
Mine isn’t that way at all. My feed is always set to “All”, and it’s a diverse range of discussions.
My home feed is “all”, sorted by “hot”(weird i know but its a good way to find communities to sub to). I dont usually see nsfw, but I have seen some trans memes, sfw yuri and a instance dedicated to middrift which is kind of nsfw but has no parts showing. If i dont like what im seeing i just block the instance. But it hasnt happened alot. Mostly just news articles and current events though.
OP’s “karma”/reputation score, visible from Mbin instances, is at -1435. I think it’s safe to assume that OP does not intend to be taken seriously.
OP’s comment history is full of antagonism and bad takes. So many of their comments have exclamation points!!! I have a feeling they’re a bit lost on things and/or they don’t want to admit to the means by which they are seeing this content that they claim to be repulsed by. Blocking is free, and I suggest doing to major sources of bad vibes.
Have you tried not subscribing to those communities?
The main difference with Reddit is Reddit excludes all NSFW and quarantined subs from the all feed, Lemmy doesn’t. So if your instance federates with porn instances yeah, the all feed is gonna suck.
Your feed is what you click on OP….
I make liberal use if the Lemmy feature of blocking users/communities/instances.
I noticed the same thing as you—so much kinky shit when browsing All. I mostly don’t care what gets people off but I don’t need to see it in my feed. Eventually, I found that it was easiest to block entire instances where that stuff is prevalent. It’s not like you’ll miss anything important.
Same with communities and users. If I know a community isn’t going to interest me, I block it from All. If a user bothers me enough that I recognize the name, I block them.
It’s just better this way. You’re not missing much by blocking. Your time and attention is better spent on the things that matter to you.
Honestly, it’s kind of obnoxious that you’re inundated with porn by default in “all”. I mean, it’s fine if people are into that, but it’s not necessarily what every user wants to deal with blocking when the are a new user. Some might just erroneously assume the whole platform is just a porn site and leave if that isn’t what they want. I have blocked a shitton of porn communities because I’m not interested in that, but there are a hell of a lot of them. I’m glad instance blocking became a thing because prior to that I had a zillion communities blocked.
Would just nice for the default to be different is all. I get why some people are immediately super turned off by using Lemmy because of stuff like that.
Again, I’m not trying to say porn is necessarily bad, but it’s a bit jarring when that’s not what you came here for and when it’s not what the platform is “advertised” as. It’s like if Grandma tries to join Facebook to stay connected to people but when she first logs in there’s just porn all over her feed. Obviously that doesn’t happen there. I’m just trying to paint a picture.
Does lemmy have a block limit? Reddit does. I hit it.
Have your main account set to filter out NSFW to avoid that content. Also, there is absolutely no shortage of that content on reddit lmao. At least when I was there anyway.
You must be using the All Trans Anime Porn All the Time app.
I just use Firefox for Android and sort by New by default and I don’t recall seeing any trans anime porn. Ever.
You must be using the All Trans Anime Porn All the Time app.
Certified ATAPAtTApp moment
Mine is not that. There was lots of porn, hentail, and tranny nudes showing in new at first, but I blocked those communities, its been good since
Yeah, unless you’re talking about transmissions pulled out and leaking fluid allll over the pavement like a dirty, dirty power transfer whore, tranny isn’t an ideal word choice nowadays. Which, if you’re using some of that sexy, slippery fluid to pleasure yourself while flipping through c/hotmopartrannies, carry on.
It was never exactly a good word to use, though it wasn’t as widely known that it was predominantly used in a derogatory manner back in the eighties and early nineties when it got more common in usage.
But nowadays, the only people that use it regularly are bigots, so if you aren’t one, and you use it, chances are that people will assume the worst, what with the worst often being the case.
But, you know, if you’ve got any pics of a Muncie m20 just sitting around, you know, maybe don’t Bogart that shit
It wascallyed something Tranny. Edit: my bad it was Transy not tranny
My bad, the groups was transy not tranny
Do you realize that’s a slur?
The group had that name
I’ve thought about blocking the instance you’re on. Lots of garbage from that instance.
It’s been months since I blocked all the individual instances that post things like that, I never see it. But yeah not surprised it’s still there. Lemmy blocklists should be a thing, would make the new user experience much more endurable. Last I checked I have over 800 communities blocked and dont miss any of them.
Curious to see your list of blocked instances (and if you remember why for each one).
I’ve only blocked a couple, but I’ve seriously thought about many more.
Took me a while as I’m doing this on a phone but here are my blocked instances with reasons, and for your enjoyment, all my blocked communities (there are considerably fewer than 800 though)
Mostly I block things I have little interest in, foreign languages, nsfw, anime, bands, video games, religions, subcultures I’m not a part of. I generally don’t have any ill will toward them but have no need to see their posts. Some of these I’ve blocked after browsing c/all and seen one post. This blocklist has made c/all pleasantly readable for me. I’ve also got a few dozen users blocked but I’ll I’ll keep that list to myself.
Blocked Instances
mtgzone.com I dont play mtg
pawb.social not a furry
pawb.fun not a furry
feddit.it I don’t speak italian
lemmy.eco.br or portugese
jlai.lu or enough french to use this
yiffit.net again, not a furry
feddit.dk I dont speak enough german
fanaticus.social I dont remember what this one is but if its sports yeah that’s the reason
soccer.forum not big on soccer
lemmynsfw.com I dont use lemmy for porn
pornlemmy.com ditto
monero.town I am not a cryptocurrencist
lemmy.vg nor vegan
vegantheoryclub.org again, not vegan
veganism.social I eat plant based meals but meat is in there usually as a flavor enhancer and for added convenient protein
vegane.schule german and vegan, big nope from this lemmitor
lemmy.vegan.dev I need a certain amount of meat to code
social.vegan.im.it italian food is probably pretty good without meat but hey I’m not going to bass my whole personality around it
feddit.ro even romanians will look at you funny if you try to learn their language
szmer.info what even is this
awful.systems these dorks are mean
hilariouschaos.com these dorks are boring
dubvee.org no clue
ani.social I choose to socialize the bare minimum with the anime folks, sorry
Blocked Communities
Sex Meme [email protected]
Superbowl
LEGO
Classic [email protected]
Dandadumber [MANGA READERS HERE]@ani.social
Tiddies + [email protected]
Low Quality [email protected]
Stardew [email protected]
Rayven-Dev
Call Me Kevin
Catfight [email protected]
Shitty Ask [email protected]
Livestream Fails
Music
[ARCHIVED] Garden [email protected]
Satisfactory
Anime [email protected]
Factorio
FFM Threesome
Overwatch Porn
Gonewild couples
Chelsea Charms: Stunningly Huge Boobs - The World’s Biggest Augmented Breasts
Nanashi Mumei
Touhou [email protected]
Saturday Morning Breakfast [email protected]
All things Mother and EB
Soulslike - Discussion, News, [email protected]
Aesthetic Miscellany
Hazbin [email protected]
Gonewild stories
Calvin and Hobbes
Bloom [email protected]
Wings of fire
wings of fire fan club
The Official Unofficial Ashens Sublemmy
Nose [email protected]
Squirrel Spotting [email protected]
[ARCHIVED] [email protected]
hentai
Furry Captions
TinyURL
christian stuff
Duolingo
Fighting Game Community
Los Angeles Lakers
grimdank
Inktober [email protected]
Star Wars
DnD Homebrew
AI Generated [email protected]
Jewish
Pokémon TCG [email protected]
NSFWCYOA
Colibri [email protected]
Fun Loops ▶️@midwest.social
Helluva Boss
[ARCHIVED] Pokemon [email protected]
Deadlock @sopuli.xyz
cute dogs, cats, and other [email protected]
Boardgames
No Americans Here
egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy [email protected]
Life Insurance
Skywind
League of [email protected]
Reaction GIFs and Memes
LA Clippers
Album Art - Share your favourite music album cover
Dogs
No Man’s Sky
Video game [email protected]
Board [email protected]
Rabbits
Pokémon TCG [email protected]
Spiele - Brett, Gesellschaft, [email protected]
The Apothecary Diaries | Kusuriya no [email protected]
Boobies
Four’s Airship (NieR/Drakengard)@lemm.ee
The Expanse
Spy x [email protected]
… okay thats the list