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  • x00za@lemmy.dbzer0.comtoMemes@sopuli.xyzIt's important
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    38 minutes ago

    Ah, so you’re including abuse. Well abuse is a no go ofcourse. All the rest is just something you’ll have to live with and first reflect upon yourself. If somebody suddenly respects you less, maybe you’re not being respectful either. Regarding the unhappy argument. I find that extremely selfish. My friends are not MEANT to make me happy. They are meant to be there when I’m unhappy. Sometimes they’ll have to “make me unhappy” to make me realize my mistakes. That’s what friendship is all about. If somebody drops you for being at your worst, they are worse.


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    3 hours ago

    t the end of the day, all human relations rely on a cost/benefit analysis. If I’m losing more than I’m gaining from this relationship, why should I continue it?

    I would drop a person that thinks like this in an instant.

    I also don’t think you’re doing that person any favors by ignoring their bad behavior.

    Nobody said anything about ignoring. People can help people, yet lately they only think of themselves.


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    4 hours ago

    When somebody is going trough a mental crisis, I also shun them into loneliness. I only want good vibes! /s

    The only thing that matters between friends is real vibes, like truth, respect and understanding of pain. Sometimes we do indeed have to set up a boundary, but not in the general sense as this Twitter quote claims. There is no black and white, and kicking people away for going trough a hard time is not healthy in the long run whatsoever.