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  • orphiebaby@lemm.eetoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldobesity
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    Yeah, black Americans have a very distinct culture. Started as slaves, were segregated in a lot of ways, they still often have ghetto neighborhoods, they created unique genres of music with strong black identity and they still have their own entertainment catered towards them. That’s America for you.


  • orphiebaby@lemm.eetoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldobesity
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    From my experience, black people want to be called black. I’m a white kid, but was raised in a foster family with three black siblings and other black family, including some that lived in a ghetto in another city. It was the 90s and early 2000s, so we watched some BET, we watched the Boondocks, we listened to thug rap, we watched shows with black characters such as All That and Cousin Skeeter. Because it was all a part of my brothers’ culture, and they felt attached to it, and “black culture” was cool to all of us. And in anything we participated in I’ve never heard a single African-American who didn’t call themselves “black” and be fine being called that. Maybe there are some rich people like Obama or Tom of The Boondocks who wouldn’t call themselves “black”, but they seem to be of a different lifestyle and culture than that.

    I’ve also sometimes made the argument in defense of “black”, that “African-American” is mildly politically-incorrect itself— not that I have a problem with the term, just the hyper-vigilant enforcing of it. Because it’s not synonymous with skin color itself, it’s a statement about where they came from. We don’t call white people “European-Americans”; and what do we call non-black African-Americans from, say, Egypt or South America? So… yeah.










  • That’s not why I removed it. If you’re trying to post a helpful comment in response to a mental health issue, I recommend phrasing it in a way that doesn’t sound ambiguously toxic. That’s not a rule or demand, it’s just why I removed it.

    Update: For context, it was a minimalistic statement along the lines of “I thought all the gang stalker victims were on Reddit” or something-- I forget the exact phrasing. I only removed that and one other comment here, and performed no other moderator actions; because I couldn’t tell the intention of the commenter, and I’m not here to “crack down” on people unnecessarily. If I took the nature of the comment the wrong way, then 1. so could OP, which is the point of the removal, and 2. you can always try posting again in a different way. We’re all chill here, or so I hope, fam.

    Welcome to being a mod-- people will always think you either do too little or do too much, and your decision is always wrong. I’ve accepted this. But I do like to be transparent and chill.



  • Note from moderator: The comments here are walking a thin line and I’m not always sure which to remove. But here’s my advice for y’all:

    I’m not against people saying OP likely has schizophrenia and has paranoid delusions. I’m not sure how insensitive it may be to make those arguments. But for the love of god please watch your tone and phrasing, and use some common-sense empathy when people are struggling with mental health. I’m removing a few of the more callous-sounding comments, but I’m not sending any warnings unless they’re really mean. Thank you.

    Update: also feel free to report comments if you think they are too mean.







  • The people who published Big Rigs are still out there publishing terrible mainstream license games such as the new Kong game and the new Avatar: TLA game (yes, really). They’re called “Game Mill”, and they are exactly what their name is, and their games are some of the worst on shelves. They don’t keep any employees very long and they have them work on games before they even get an order so they can slap the license into the game last-minute.


  • orphiebaby@lemm.eetome_irl@lemmy.worldme_irl
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    1. Depends on your definition of “accent” (yes, really). Is an accent a deviation from standard/dictionary, or is standard/dictionary also an accent?
    2. Assuming standard isn’t accent, depends on the zone/individual. We all know about Brooklyn and Southern drawl and Minnesotan, etc.
    3. Assuming standard isn’t accent, Americans have less accent than other English-speakers, but more accent than you’d think. For example, Americans say “budder” instead of “butter”.