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  • Mid to late 20’s?

    I think its quite shallow to judge someone based on their living situation - sounds like dodged bullets to me.

    If its any consolation, my wife and I lived in a single room in her mothers house for several years before getting our own place. We were both living with our parents at the time we met, it sounds like you just havent found the right person for you. Don’t rush to the next stage of life. Give it time, we all come from different walks of life and follow different paths.

    I was on track to buy a van and start driving around Australia like the other people I mentioned until I met my now wife and everything changed.

    Have a loose plan for what you want in life and keep an open mind. Things change all the time and what you think you might want one day will do a 180 the next. Adapt your life plan to suit and continue forwards!

    After all, we as humans are just fancy blocks of carbon and water that talk and do dumb shit. Nothing really matters - we will be dirt and worms one day and the earth will keep spinning.


  • Welcome to the meat grinder my friend.

    You sound part of the younger generation starting to enter the work force. Stay at home as long as possible (family situation permitting) and save your pennies.

    I think these days with the current climate you have it really tough - everything is fucked in the work world and its all about more production more money at the cost of your soul. Good employers are far and few between.

    You have 2 options:

    • Stay on your current trajectory and feed yourself in to the grinder, you might eventially find stability.

    • Alternative life paths to the traditional ones.

    I know a few people that barely work and travel around all the time. They are some of the happiest people I know. They usually have a skill that can be traded for goods or money like painting, woodwork, think trade based skills, handyman stuff.

    You also have the third option of asking your parents for a small loan of 1 million dollars and starting your own business.




  • Ok you seem to be currently incapable of understanding what I’m actually saying.

    Of course women can be misogynists.

    You are lumping it all together as one category when it’s plainly not one category. That is as simple as I can make it for you. You can have as many internet points as you like trying to sound as intelligent as possible and skirting around my point while putting words in my mouth.

    I wish you much happiness.

    Goodbye


  • No thats not even remotely true.

    I assume you must know every living human condition to come to that statement?

    There is an entire community dedicated to “femcels” - do they all hate women?

    Youre putting an additional horrible personality trait on to people that are ordinary people who otherwise struggle to find intimacy with others.

    Saying the two are one and the same or saying if one then also the other is ignorant as fuck and doesnt help anyone.






  • Little steps: (applicable if you use google services)

    • Changing email from gmail
    • Changing browser from chrome
    • Use alternative search engine
    • Using Docs alternatives
    • Using photos alternatives
    • Using maps alternatives

    Major impact steps:

    • GrapheneOS
    • Uninstalling google play services
    • Using push notification alternatives
    • Using alternative app stores

    I never really used googles apps much to begin with apart from youtube, maps and chrome, I used a lot of microsoft shit before they really started shitting the bed with windows 11 and ai garbage.

    Biggest issue I ran in to changing to Graphene and not using play services was lack of push notifications but these days i prefer to have notifications off for most things and the really important stuff either has alternatives or runs in the background.

    Battery life without play services is insane too so thats a bonus.

    Havent deleted my google account yet cause I still use it for youtube subs but im sure in time it will disappear.