

I don’t think I have any form of emotional bond with my parents. I get along with them ‘fine’ but I know very little about them and they know very little about me.
I think they realized this and gave a lot more attention to my sibling (this is not jealousy speaking. They just spend much more time with them) which is good for them.
It’s like living with strangers. I don’t think I’ve ever had an actual serious discussion with them in my life, save for being scolded as a kid.
It’s odd. I don’t think I realized it until I was on a date and my mother called and when the conversation was over I just hung up. And my date said “You don’t tell your mom you love her when you hang up?”
I suppose it was never ingrained in me to love them
Vietnam and China have a pretty rocky relationship no?