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Cake day: August 27th, 2023

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  • If you think the new job has the potential to be more fulfilling and you are willing to take the gamble they work out in the future. I would say do it.

    I took a job at my first start-up three years ago, where I actually took a pay cut. Partly because I didn’t see my role still being around much longer (I was right), and I was ready to finally try a privately owned company. So sick of the big corporate culture.

    It has paid off so far. I have had many opportunities to advance and try different aspects of engineering and maintenance, including management. I also make +$25k more now than I did before changing jobs, and now work remotely.

    Though the biggest thing for me has been being able to be proud of what I do and feel like I am making a difference. I worked in engineering mostly supporting oil and gas for over a decade, and am finally working in renewables and upcycling on some pretty cool technology I actually believe in.

    I had also stayed in jobs that I grew to hate too long and literally almost died from it.

    I would still ask for something more in the offer though. It sounds a bit too lateral of a move for taking the risk.



  • I did need AA to get sober. Also as an atheist, it took me quite a few meetings to find a group that aligned with that. I honestly stayed away from getting help for a long time due to my concerns with the faith aspect.

    My GOD was a Group Of Drunks in a meeting that I believed in and we helped each other stay sober.

    Haven’t been to a meeting in five years. However I don’t think I would have gotten sober eight years ago without the community I found in AA.

    Still very much an atheist. Probably more so now than before.


  • I learned it in grade school in New Hampshire. Fridays were half days in winter and our PE was going to the mountain for the afternoon and getting skiing instruction. I was in a small poor town with no street lights, we were not rich. Equipment was subsidized for the kids who couldn’t afford it. I do wonder if money to support it came from outside our community. There are a few winter Olympians that I graduated highschool with.

    I never realized how privileged I was to have that experience until I was in college. I have probably gone to the mountains less than a dozen times since then. Too expensive, and I have better things to do with my time now.




  • Also an engineer. I’m lucky that most of my meetings are before noon now after I moved to a different time zone. Though, that also means I have early meetings I have to be alert and ready for. Of course by the time I have a couple hours at the end of my work day to actually get something done I am mentally exhausted and need to start resting for my early morning meetings the next day.