A genie appears before you and says you must choose to be very physically attractive, but slightly below average intelligence, or very intelligent, but slightly below average attractiveness? Which would you choose, and why?

  • Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
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    2 months ago

    Intelligence, easier to figure out how to improve my attractiveness and deal with complex problems in general than trying to get smarter.

  • Hyphlosion@lemm.ee
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    2 months ago

    I’m currently neither. Since I’m already used to not being intelligent, I’d go with being beautiful. Then I could always work to increase my intelligence if I wanted.

  • MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works
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    2 months ago

    Clever but slightly below average attractiveness? Yes, I’ll take that. It would be a double upgrade for me.

  • Lettuce eat lettuce@lemmy.ml
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    2 months ago

    Easily smart and slightly below average attractiveness. It’s pretty trivial to boost your appearance by 2-3 “points” with some decent fashion choices, makeup, working out, and good grooming.

    Worst case, I use my high intelligence to get a high paying job and use some of the money for plastic surgery.

  • ReakDuck@lemmy.ml
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    2 months ago

    Smarter.

    But I feel like I already have both. At the same time I feel like I have nothing od them both.

    Especially because only a selection tells me that I look very attractive. I get more compliments from males when I dress like a female for Halloween while I am hetero. But mostly I feel like its not true because many people just accept my presents. But maybe they only accept me because I dont look unattractive.

    So choosing attractiveness leads to better social connections which I rely on.

    The intelligence… I feel dumb as fuck often times because simple tasks are difficult for me or getting a focus in general. But I get compliments of being smart as fuck, especially when they see how many peogramming languages I can write in or see the projects I created or I was creative on.

    Still, I guess this is the sideproduct of being too intelligent. That being too intelligent with Asberger and ADHD results into not being able to do simple tasks. I feel like the word “dumb” is just a question of perspective, because i am dumb in too many simple things, except its about a topic I love like Computers, electronics or Math sometimes.

    So the question arrises. When I choose being intelligent. Would I be able to be Intelligent in tasks which people with lower IQ (I guess dumb?) can easily master? And at the same time also in tasks which only people with higher IQ can master? (Idk my IQ btw, could be both high or low. I really dont know)

    Also, would I be able to still connect with people with the intelligence because I would have a high Empathic Intelligence? I noticed that the Higher the IQ of someone is, the lower their EQ will be. Making them a bit Egoistic and unhandsome.

    Its a complex topic with many questions

  • 2ugly2live@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    Smart. Pretty, dumb people get taken advantage of. Besides, I’m already unattractive, might as well give me something after making me go through high school 😒