• Nate Cox@programming.dev
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    22 days ago

    I very much want things to get better, I suspect we just have different ideological definitions of “better”.

    My version of better is a world where women don’t have to worry about every interaction that they are going to have with men, where they feel safe and secure and no woman ever gets trod upon so often that they feel compelled to lash out. We do this by lifting people up and empathizing with their frustrations, and calling out shitty behavior where we see it.

    It sounds like your version of better is where we pretend that everything is ok and carry on like normal, condemning those who make any attempt to empathize as agitators.

    Feel free to cite where I have strawman’d you, because I’m only inferring from what you have presented.