Are you in a relationship, or have you been with someone before that truly enjoys hearing about little details of your day? What you ate, what your coworker joked about, etc? Silence is meaningful, of course, but so are the sounds of someone showing they love you everything you share.
Everything is a balance and people are different anyways. I don’t know many people who like any of the extremes. But it’s a different amount for everyone. And the “partner” thing is strange anyways. As long as you’re madly in love, you probably enjoy hearing about every pea in their canteen meal. That might fade after 20 years of marriage. Or a stressful day at work. Or with kids. Or it doesn’t. Both is fine. As long as it’s consenting partners. 😆
Are you in a relationship, or have you been with someone before that truly enjoys hearing about little details of your day? What you ate, what your coworker joked about, etc? Silence is meaningful, of course, but so are the sounds of someone showing they love you everything you share.
They did say “sometimes”, but it seems like you took that to mean “all the times”?
Everything is a balance and people are different anyways. I don’t know many people who like any of the extremes. But it’s a different amount for everyone. And the “partner” thing is strange anyways. As long as you’re madly in love, you probably enjoy hearing about every pea in their canteen meal. That might fade after 20 years of marriage. Or a stressful day at work. Or with kids. Or it doesn’t. Both is fine. As long as it’s consenting partners. 😆