I don’t have a problem with drinking. It’s unattractive when someone ignores the situation and drinks way too much. “Beyond group vibes” means out of touch with whoever they’re drinking with.
If everyone else is enjoying a quiet get together, maybe one drink or two, don’t get raging drunk. If everyone else is smoking weed, don’t start doing shrooms.
If it’s a party where everyone’s drinking more and plans to get home safely have been established, then go ahead and drink to match.
On early dates, getting to know someone, I’m having one drink if any at all as a matter of safety. If the guy I’m out with gets drunk while I’m sober, that’s an ick.
How about drinking while cooking? Yk, having wine while cooking steak au jus or something.
I don’t have a problem with drinking. It’s unattractive when someone ignores the situation and drinks way too much. “Beyond group vibes” means out of touch with whoever they’re drinking with.
If everyone else is enjoying a quiet get together, maybe one drink or two, don’t get raging drunk. If everyone else is smoking weed, don’t start doing shrooms.
If it’s a party where everyone’s drinking more and plans to get home safely have been established, then go ahead and drink to match.
On early dates, getting to know someone, I’m having one drink if any at all as a matter of safety. If the guy I’m out with gets drunk while I’m sober, that’s an ick.
Hm, yeah that’s more than reasonable.