• hark@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    This is fake but it makes me wonder if someone has used a fake profile (that is set up to be more appealing than they actually are) so they could “swoop in” by pretending to notice they were “stood up”.

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      3 months ago

      IMHO it says more about humans and social media. People on Facebook and Reddit will believe much more far-fetched stories.

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      3 months ago

      I don’t actually think there’s a ministry of silly walks. While this piece probably didn’t start out as satire it effectively tickles the same bones.

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      3 months ago

      Yeah. I’m curious where this article was posted. It’s sounds like clickbait. How would she even figure that out?

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      3 months ago

      So it doesn’t actually work well when you say that the claim without source was debunked… And you also don’t provide source.

      Whatchoo talking about, bro?

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        3 months ago

        The meme itself is not even a source.

        Like, me saying I had lunch with sasquatch is not something someone needs to rigorously debunk.

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          3 months ago

          I mean I get what you’re saying but… One is a hairy apeman people claim to see in the woods, the other is companies doing something unethical and shady to improve their bottom line which there is absolutely precedent for.

          Yeah it’s unlikely this story is real but your analogy makes no sense

      • frostysauce@lemmy.world
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        It’s a fucking meme, of course it doesn’t have a source. No one in their right mind would trust this as fact anyway.

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      3 months ago

      Dang so it’s advertising that this is an untapped idea

      Hire the VAs (Virtual Assistants) now to start ghostkitching (catfishing)! Great return on investment 😬

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      3 months ago

      I’ve seen others saying it’s legit.

      Also would be pretty hard to substantiate or debunk definitively.

      Concrete evidence would be, say, the tiktoker in question being caught out or admitting it was fabricated.

      I’ll show you my source if you show me yours.

  • argh_another_username@lemmy.ca
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    3 months ago

    Man, I saw a guy once getting stood up and I was really sad. The guy was seated, waited, asked for something small, waited more, changed tables to free space for a larger group and then paid and left. I mean, everyone here probably went on dates that got nowhere. Finish the meal, shake hands and leave separate. It’s part of life. But the golden rule is never go into the restaurant alone. Always meet outside l, somewhere else.

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      3 months ago

      Once I went on a date with someone, we were both perfectly reasonable and polite, and we both felt zero chemistry midway through the date and ended it early. It was the best terrible date I’ve ever had.

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      Genuine question - do people seriously have dates in restaurants? I’m 32 and never have I ever been asked on a date in a restaurant. Cafe, sure. But a full on meal with a person? I literally don’t know anyone who went on a first/early date in a restaurant. I assumed that’s a 90s thing that was nowadays only taking place in movies and sitcoms.

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        I did. Restaurants, movies, parks… I don’t recommend movies. We met, got to the theatre, watched the movie, but we didn’t actually talk, because, well, movie. How do you call that big sidewalk alongside a beach? That was awesome. Long walk just talking and listening.

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          How do you call that big sidewalk alongside a beach? That was awesome. Long walk just talking and listening.

          Esplanade?

          And yeah I agree just a long walk’n’talk where you don’t have to constantly look at the other person is kind of the best to get to know someone.

          And ffs movies… I had one first date at the movies and this was really awful. Especially since afterwards we drove home (not together). Like, what was that even?

          The only way it works is if you go have drinks afterwards and heatedly discuss the movie. But for this you have to meet a cinemaholic and the movie has to have been at least not neutral. Maybe still better on a second or third date than first.

          Maybe I’ve never been to a restaurant because I effectively stopped dating at 24 and before that I just wasn’t in the age group that could afford restaurants?

    • AnalogyAddict@lemmy.world
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      Spoken like someone who isn’t afraid of potential dates. Lol.

      No way I’m meeting privately on a first date with someone I don’t know. I’d rather be stood up in the restaurant.

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        You can just meet outside the restaurant.

        You just don’t go in before you meet them outside the front door.

        Hell, it can even be a chivalry test to see if he holds the door for you.

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          3 months ago

          coffee instead of a free dinner? put that on your profile and see how many hits you get. I’ll give you a hint, it starts with a decimal place.

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            3 months ago

            Such a sad state of dating. You think it would start with interest in the person rather than interest in a meal.

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            If you’re not getting a date, I guarantee you, the word “coffee” in your profile is not the reason.

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            I’ve always done coffee for first dates, from dating apps, or otherwise. It’s a great, relaxed atmosphere for getting to know someone. You can go for a walk, or chill in the cafe, then, if things are going well, and you both want to go further, you can get a meal after. The last woman I did this with, five years ago, is now my fiancée

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            I’m no golden rule and I assure you, coffee date is on my profile. 1-2 dates a week. I’ve also had coffee… then some lunch… then dinner. All about connecting and not being a dumbass. No one wants to be trapped on a date that isn’t working, coffee or even just breakfast, is the best option.

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            Women worth dating tend to find coffee much more appealing as a first date than an expensive meal.

            Maybe you just have a hard time identifying the women worth dating? Many people do.

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    This seems suspect.

    The woman in question is a tiktok ‘influencer’ who has the most amazing things hapoen to her - always wiithout evidence.

    I think it’s just as likely that she’s lying to get views and subscribers,

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    3 months ago

    The original creator of the video never named the restaurant and also has since deleted the video. I can’t find any explanation or followup from her, so this is likely a fake story.

  • Snapz@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Picturing an uber “gig economy” job where you’re paid to engage on carrying apps, meet at the restaurant and sneak out the bathroom for this same effect on the remaining person. 24 hours later they are then prompted by notification to review and tip.

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      I know you wanna believe the world is shit, but try to remember that this probably isn’t even real. Don’t get lost in your social media feed. Don’t take curated content as a representative sample of reality. Worst case scenario, someone crafted a story… which is a story older than our timelines themselves.