• ComradeSharkfucker@lemmy.ml
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    6 months ago

    Having an interesting conversation with someone you just met. I see people do this shit all the time and they make it look like it comes naturally but every time I’m in that situation it is so difficult. Its like a series of quick time events that im severely underprepared for

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      6 months ago

      I learned to combat this with 3 simple questions:

      1. What kind of job do you do? (Or study)
      2. Where do you live?
      3. Do you have any kids, dog,…

      Be interrested in their answers and add some simple follow-up questions that show you are listening. Add some content of your own as a follow-up.

      Posing that first question can be a bit weird, but the rest is as simple as it sounds.