No one’s saying you shouldn’t have a safe place to sleep, and if they are then I would like to have a discussion with them

buddy it used to be absolutely standard for people to invite complete and utter strangers into their homes, offer them food and a place to sleep, and not expect any sort of payment beyond maybe them telling some stories and news.

maybe research the past before saying laughable things as if they’re some amazing “gotcha”

This kind of argument is like those anti-communist arguments “would you want to have to share your iPod with strangers?”