I’m 18, I was totally fine with the prospect of never having a romantic relationship.

But this past month I had two dreams that had one of my online comrades in it, and in them we were dating, and this was really strange to me because i didn’t have any feelings for her, and it happened twice, was incredibly vivid, and in them I felt like we were soulmates.

So this led me to contrast our natal charts and come to find out we have nearly perfect astrological compatibility. You certainly don’t have to believe in this, I’m obviously a materialist first and foremost, but this convinced me to ask her out.

And she accepted, and essentially we just set up the boundaries, expectations, preferences, etc., before we became emotionally invested in the relationship. And we then sorta fell in love with each other after we had already agreed to be girlfriends, which might not be a very common occurrence.

I’ve been very close friends with her for a couple years already and we’ve helped each other through a lot of heavy stuff, so in retrospect if feels like a natural progression and also not that different, so it’s basically just the status quo + romance now.

She’s a black trans Marxist-Leninist catgirl and rapper I just hit the jackpot