Gross as in, you’re changing the face that someone is presenting to the world, because you think you know better than they do how they should present themselves.
What the fuck? Are you saying the app like sends the result to the person, and says SEE?!? I think it just shows the user a picture, tbh. But yeah it’s probably not super accurate anyway.
Who is better suited to know how someone can better present themselves than those having the experience of being presented to?
Maybe that doesn’t help you at work, or competing with the other girls, or manipulating people, or avoiding being gossiped about, or managing your self-hatred over how you naturally look.
But it still might be true for the person changing the presentation to better appeal to their preferences.
You’re not wrong, you’re simply not what they prefered. If you were, then they would have had a better experience. Why did being right or wrong enter the conversation?
So as a Star Trek fan, I should dress up as a Star Wars fan to please the Star Wars fans looking for Star Trek fans posting as Star Wars fans? Regardless of my desire to pretend to be a Star Wars fan and get into all the interactions that entails? I don’t know if you see yet why people find this objectionable.
Unfortunately, life involves a considerable amount of want, as well. Why does it bother you so much to know someone doesn’t find you to be a pleasant experience?
I’d imagine not very, also it’s kind of gross in a hard to quantify way, at lest hard for me.
Gross in the this makes me insecure because I use makeup to hide my imperfections and compete socially kind of way?
And that’s bad because…? Surely you don’t blame the individual for this?
I didn’t say it was bad, nor did I cast blame. Two giant leaps there.
Gross as in, you’re changing the face that someone is presenting to the world, because you think you know better than they do how they should present themselves.
What the fuck? Are you saying the app like sends the result to the person, and says SEE?!? I think it just shows the user a picture, tbh. But yeah it’s probably not super accurate anyway.
Who is better suited to know how someone can better present themselves than those having the experience of being presented to?
Maybe that doesn’t help you at work, or competing with the other girls, or manipulating people, or avoiding being gossiped about, or managing your self-hatred over how you naturally look.
But it still might be true for the person changing the presentation to better appeal to their preferences.
So if I go out wearing a Star Trek and encounter someone who wants to meet a Star Wars fan, then I’m in the wrong for choosing that shirt?
You’re not wrong, you’re simply not what they prefered. If you were, then they would have had a better experience. Why did being right or wrong enter the conversation?
So they would have a better experience encountering a Star Trek fan posing as a Star Wars fan?
If they wanted to meet a Star Trek fan posing as a Star Wars fan, then yes.
So as a Star Trek fan, I should dress up as a Star Wars fan to please the Star Wars fans looking for Star Trek fans posting as Star Wars fans? Regardless of my desire to pretend to be a Star Wars fan and get into all the interactions that entails? I don’t know if you see yet why people find this objectionable.
Who better? Anyone who is not you, because anyone else would know not to say anything because nothing needs to be said.
Unfortunately, life involves a considerable amount of want, as well. Why does it bother you so much to know someone doesn’t find you to be a pleasant experience?