Hi, Ivy Astrix here. I saw some of my work referenced here so figured I’d pop in and do an AMA. I did harm reduction at Vibecamp 1/2, and Vibegala 1/2. Happy to answer what I can as long as it doesn’t violate confidences or isn’t in service of personal grievances.
Really hate to say this, but if you’re coming from a place of ignorance and want to ask about what terms mean, you might want to be extra careful with how you ask. You should also do some homework on your own before trying to participate.
Seconding the core sentiment here
Those that have gone through abuse and hurt already have a lot on their plate, and having to handhold others through it is a lot of work - try to be mindful of what you might be asking from another
Answer a question? No, no, talk down to them as if that makes them an abuser
Why not go the extra 1/10000th of a mile and drop a link to “let me google that for you” while you’re at it
get the fuck out
also hexbear has a new domain? thanks for letting us know with a typically shitty fucking post
e: when in the fuck did we refederate with fucking hexbear? I’m assuming somebody misclicked