I’m new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don’t know anything about lemmy etiquette and don’t want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

  • innermachine@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    It’s basically the same. Lemmy is kind of what reddit felt like before it got huge and astroturfed, it’s smaller which can be as much a benefit as a detriment depending what your after. I find interaction here tends to feel more human than reddit, on reddit comment threads especially in political subreddits you already know what the comments are gonna say before you get there, here i feel as though there is a bit more genuine thought. That being said Lemmy is not immune to echo chambers or trolls, as any bit of the internet is. Just use as you would use reddit honestly and just know your likely not to see as much content, but the content you see will get a more GENUINE feeling interaction. That’s my take anyhow.

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    10 months ago

    Similar to Reddit. Everything here seems to be more tech oriented and most communities are much quieter than reddit.

    Also be prepared to follow the same topic/community across multiple servers. Reddit is older so the default community for a given topic had been established. Not so much here

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      10 months ago

      most communities are much quieter than reddit.

      We can change that right now!

      I’m doing my part!

      Not Necessarily all that well!

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    10 months ago

    Welcome!/I’d say look for communities that fit your interest, read the rules and get involved. We are not that many people here so I encourage you to post content, comment, etc.

    Also use the block function and curate your fediverse experience :)

    Hope you like it here.

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    10 months ago

    Please do not drag the same tired jokes over from reddit (e.g. broken arms). Stick around long enough to learn Lemmy’s tired jokes.

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    10 months ago

    It’s smaller, but more personable. It’s full of neurodivergent, queer, and tech oriented people. It has its own inside jokes—you will want to read up on beans.

    Overall, I have enjoyed the experience. Sometimes, I have been surprised when people can’t detect obvious jokes or sarcasm, but then I remember how many people here are neurodivergent and try to reply with something kind and straightforward so we’re on the same page.

    People tend to be very leftist compared to the rest of the internet, so it’s good to remember that the opinions here are not always representative of the world at large.

    A huge chunk of Lemmy is German, and that part of the community remains a total mystery to me because I don’t speak German. They seem cool from afar.

    Which communities you are able to see depends pretty heavily on which instance is your home base—I’m with DB0, and we federate with pretty much everyone who isn’t doing something detestably illegal, but LemmyWorld is much more exclusive with who they federate with, so their users don’t see the same instances that I do. Pick a home instance that fits you best because it will matter a lot as you find communities.

    You will see interactions between communists and anarchists. Try to remember that you don’t have to comment on everything you might disagree with.

    Welcome to the Fediverse—we’re happy to have you.

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      10 months ago

      Speaking of federation, do you know if there is a site that compares federation from instances. It would be nice to make a good decision before creating an account. Like I am on lemmy.ca and have no idea what you may see that i don’t. Personally I feel like lemmy.ca is good but have no comparison point other than lemmy.world I used a little.

      And for OP if you browse on mobile I tried a lot of apps and settled on “Summit”. It’s great and stable.

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        10 months ago

        There used to be this website, but the url just loads up a scam site now (I’ve created this issue on the project’s tracker if anyone has additional info to contribute).

        I don’t know how technical you are, @[email protected] , but you could try running the “defed-investigator” project locally.

    • Camille_Jamal@lemmy.mlOP
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      10 months ago

      Thanks, have a great day! :D

      I have more excuses to learn German piling up lol (I have a German friend… 2 actually, and also this platform. I wanna learn something that seems interesting to me)

      Also I have diverged neurons (joke, I mean I’m nd) I’m AuDHD.

      Please don’t treat too different just because I’m nd yall (I’ve had bad experiences with ableism, long story)

      Anyways thanks again :D

      Wait a minute… I’ve seen you before… forgot where on here though.

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        10 months ago

        I get around, lol. I’ve been on Lemmy for quite a while now.

        My girlfriend is also on the spectrum, so I try to handle neurodivergent misunderstandings here the same way I do with her: cunnilingus, uh, I mean, a clearly worded rephrasing of my statement.

        Glad you found us, it sounds like you’ll fit in well here.

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    10 months ago

    Niche communities are small/sparse, so commenting and posting there will be especially appreciated.

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    10 months ago

    there isn’t any lemmy equitte

    there is equitte for each instance. that’s up to the people who admin the instance and usually boils down to political beliefs.

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    10 months ago

    corporate koolaid frequently masquerades as ‘knowledge’, and is parroted rather than built up from first principles.

    compared to reddit, an average lemmy user would tend more towards the latter than the former.

    be on the lookout for the cognitive dissonance which can precede the realisation you’ve been parroting corporate propaganda. it’s ok, it happens to all of us, but the sooner we realise the better for everyone.

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    10 months ago

    Average user age is slightly more older here.

    The three most common groups are .world(liberals), .ml(socialists), and .blahaj(uwu)

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    10 months ago

    Have a backup instance in mind, if the culture of your current one doesn’t work out. Especially yours. People are not at liberty to express what’s what with this instance on this instance.

    Do not be afraid to block people, because they will keep showing up, and some of them are psychic vampires whom their instances will never punish. Universal Monk has a sockpuppet on every instance and will probably respond rudely to slash angrily report this comment for pointing out they’re a block-evading ‘hmm curious’ spambot.

    As on reddit, beware the cult of civility. Some communities (subs) will viciously punish ‘fuck off’ but not any behavior that frankly deserves a vulgar dismissal. Read the sidebar. Don’t be afraid to search for alternative communities if the sole moderator is intolerable. See also the Ye Power Trippin Bastards community on dbzer0.

    • Camille_Jamal@lemmy.mlOP
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      10 months ago

      thanks

      to be clear: block universal monk, have backup instances (I have a sh.it and .zip and potentially a few more???)

      anyways have a great day

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        10 months ago

        to be clear: block universal monk

        For sure. I’m terrible because I post so many articles promoting third parties, socialism, and anarchy!

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          10 months ago

          after a quick check on your history, you post too much news and other stuff that I don’t like. I have no clue how true either of your claims are, but I don’t like news. It’s stressful, annoying, confusing, etc.

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            but I don’t like news. It’s stressful, annoying, confusing, etc.

            So you don’t like news, and that made you decide to tell people to block me?! Ok… Um, what about the other people who post a lot more news than me? Most of the news I post is pro-socialist news. You can just admit you don’t like socialism. But to tell people to block me because of it, is hilarious.

            So now I have advice for newcomers: Guys, ya’ll should block Camille_Jamal. He doesn’t like news about socialism.

            See how that works?

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              Bro fair enough I’ll unblock on main sorry

              My excuse:

              When im new to a platform I tend to believe the first thing I see and im used to back on reddit (ew) when you could tell what a user is like better from posts than comments if they post often. I was also tired and thus my judgement was impaired. Sorry bro. Took a minute to actually use my brain today, and you actually dont seem as spammy as other guy was saying (at least this instance no energy to see other)

              Ok so neither of y’all seem spammy sorry also I learned how to community block instead of user block for shit I don’t like (like politics I don’t care what flavour just don’t politics at me)

              That was a weird and silly mishap sorry!

              Honestly I never should have commented that and didn’t mean “hey guys block this guy” at the time I really just wanted to say “just so you know im blocking” cuz my dumbass didnt realize you can block communities (look I don’t care what flavour of politics just don’t include me with it) im honestly tired and confused now just like I was 2ish months ago but thats hardly an excuse if at all and really I just don’t want conflict right now. It’s been a long day.

              Uhh have good day ig idk

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                Hey, friend, no worries. What you’ll find out here is that Lemmy is much much more extreme in their viewpoints. Lemmy seems to attract people who are inclined to be more obsessive on certain things, than the general public. So on here, you’ll notice that when someone gets angry at someone, they do NOT let it drop.

                Many will follow ya around and just talk shit about you forever if you disagreed with them in the past.

                So my fanclub likes to jump in a lot of newbie posts and say, “block UniversalMonk first!!” Not because it’s good advice, but because they don’t like me. There are more posts about me, than posts by me. lolololol

                But if ya look at my post history, I pretty much just stick to the little communities I manage. And you won’t find anything controversial. Just some extreme reactions to it. Ask the angry people to be specific about why they are mad at me, and they never have an answer except that they bizarrely think I am pro-Trump, even tho I didn’t vote for him and the vast majority of my articles I post are anti-Trump. LMAO

                To be honest, I’m like you and not that into politics. One of the more disappointing things about Lemmy for me is how many people revert to politics every single thread and post. It’s annoying. I think that Lemmy having being so obsessed about political talk will actually doom it. Lemmy is never gonna be popular.

                Too much politics. Too much anger. Too much obsessive stalker-types.

                I try to do my part to help Lemmy grow, but even when I post something non-political, like about science, or education or something, people like to jump in and say variations of “Fuck you! You ruined the US!” lolol As if the 100 people who post regularly on Lemmy can change anything about society. lololol

                I still love the idea of non-centralized stuff, the federation, etc. But the crowd on Lemmy is to obsessive-compulsive to allow it to grow.

                You and me are actually more alike, than we are different. Let me know how things turn out for you and if you can find enough non-political content to keep ya here.

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                  8 months ago

                  Ive blocked all the politics and it’s much better than Reddit thanks bro hope we can be better online friends in the future