• Smoogs@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    What is crazy is a lot of us women are ok with short men.

    yes, there are a vocal FEW women who speak for the plethora of us. But they can fuck right off along with the men who have weight and breast and hair color and hair straightness preferences and willing to overlook pure value to meet those explicit bullshit standards.

    But in my experience It’s the men who are not ok with taller women and martyr that we (the collective we as a women) are (all) forcing them into this kind of situation. I’ve had more than a few men announce I’m not allowed to wear heels. Or go out of their way to tell me I’m too tall for them. It’s honestly not women alone going around setting these rules as ‘The’ women standards for men.

    Women don’t ever say to who a man “well your breasts make mine look too small/your straight hair makes mine look too curly/your blond hair makes mine too brunette/your thin waist makes mine look thick” to knock themselves out of the run by self perception alone.

    Men are not men’s best friend in so many ways and you guys really have to start being your own best friends too here rather than your worst enemies. And look into mental health please.

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      2 months ago

      a lot of us women are ok with short men

      No, you aren’t. But as Sinatra would say: that’s life.

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      2 months ago

      I’m sorry, but women do on average mostly prefer taller men. This has been proven through multiple studies.

      Likewise, men prefer women with medium or large breasts vs small ones too on average.

      There’s some things in human nature that just are.

      What’s different about us is we can accept that we don’t have to accept the whims of biology as is and can have the self awareness to go against it or just accept what is and make best with what we have.

      Physical features aren’t everything, and successful relationships take more than that.

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        2 months ago

        Are you under a delusion that you are the woman’s voice speaking on behalf of all women?

        I speak for me. I didn’t hire you.

        Let me know where I can send the pink slip cuz you’re fired from being my spokesperson.

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          2 months ago

          Good thing they don’t work for you.

          If you can’t stand facts, then create your own study to prove them wrong.

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            And I’m calling bullshit. The supposed ‘facts’ you’re dogwhistling in that study that was posted neither of you idiots actually read it.

            You’re just link baiting and injecting your own interpretations (no actual quotes) to have the fight you want. Go huff farts you misogynist, misandrist toxic little troll.

            You do not speak for men or women. You speak for no one but trolls.

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          2 months ago

          You’re the one who spoke for others without evidence:

          What is crazy is a lot of us women

          Men are not men’s best friend in so many ways

          All I did was reply with factual context. Leg extension surgery is extreme - it’s happening because humans have, in general, noticed that women prefer taller men, not just because they felt like doing it for funsies. It was noticed enough that there have been multiple studies on the topic to see if it was indeed the case.

          If you can’t handle science and data, to the point you take it personally, then you may want to check again who’s under a delusion.

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            2 months ago

            false. you posted studies and injected your own misinterpretation as you didn’t read the end discussion cuz you’re lazy.

            And the article also pointed out the same fact that men are prominent in preference of height (bullying was one of the first motivations) but then again I’m not surprised by someone who didn’t even read the studies they posted.

            Worst trolling attempt ever.

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              The fuck? Point where in the study I posted it talks about:

              men are prominent in preference of height (bullying was one of the first motivations)

              Go on, quote it.

              Geez, some people really can’t handle being wrong. At this point I’m thinking you’re just arguing in bad faith, since now you’re making things up about what I posted.

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                2 months ago

                You posted studies without quoting literally anything to back up your misinterpretations of them.

                I owe you nothing.

                Yell into the void of my block list you misinformation spreading troll.