We do have a mutual promise that we don’t restrict what the other watch, especially over porn. But at this rate and under this political climate it worries me when all he watches is J. Peterson and Asm*ngold.
Recently, he’s planning to ditch his 9-5 to get into streaming. I understand following your dreams instead of working hard to make some capitalists rich but streaming has become oversaturated as hell. With Twitch being a cesspool and Kick being the place where troublemakers have free reign, I worry he will get involved with the wrong crowd.
To top it off, he keeps talking about women having to do the same work as men do in the name of equality, to which I agree. But when I question how he is going to do his fair share of responsibilities if he gets nothing from streaming, he suggests me being the breadwinner until he makes it big. This is the same man who said men paying for women’s education is a dumb move because she would end up leaving him in the end.
I feel like he is just using me for sex and a future financial support. Is there anything I can even do to tell him what he’s been doing is really concerning to me?
I think you need to have a serious talk about misogyny, the manosphere, and his business plan. If he’s going to quit his job and use you as a bank for this then i think he should do research and propose his business plan to you. Id make sure the business plan covers how how long until he can expect to make money and how much that could be (with sources).
It’s one thing to be a supportive partner, it’s another thing to bankroll someone who has in the past eluded to that they wouldn’t do the same (education).
I think there’s enough here to warrant leaving bin outright. At the very least if the serious talk is unsatisfactory then leave him.