Enlightenment, spirituality, faith — there’s nothing wrong with these things.
Organized Christianity is a social climbing scheme for people who desperately want to get away with never needing to truly outgrow their dysfunction. That’s why organized Christianity is popular with bigots, abusers, and people who hate the mirror.
Exactly. I’m sorry you went through that. Maybe we’ll get a better family in the next life? It could always be worse, but not much worse.