• KelvarIW@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    20 days ago

    I hate the state of things, but what drives me crazy is pushing it in people’s faces and still watching them go back to school and work and talk about whatever typical bullshit they’re thinking about.

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      That is pretty much how the mechanics of human consciousness works. We also know we are going to die some day, and that it is most likely not going to be very pleasant leading up to it. But we still manage to block out that knowledge of finality in our daily life.

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    20 days ago

    Even when things aren’t all fascist, we’re still disposable wage slaves for the elite. And somehow that’s what we’re supposed to be working to maintain.

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      20 days ago

      I think we have to start respecting ourselves, respecting others, and teaching those concepts to people who are receptive. To me, it seems like the only way to break the cycle called slavery.

      They can dress slavery up with benefits all they want, but they don’t even care to anymore. Everybody knows it’s a raw deal and they are trying to scare us into thinking we have no power.

      Let’s not be stuck in fear and hate, in subservience and denigration, and be sovereign and resolute in the change we want to see in the world.

      I don’t need an external authority to tell me what I should believe and hope for. I don’t need somebody to curb my expectations and tell me change is impossible, that we actually need to compromise for no real reason, that it is too “costly”, or that it will take an extremely long time. I don’t want to be told ANY of that when change is possible — these people simply gave up before they even started. No more am I going to be gaslit, and I hope others feel similarly.

      If you can’t imagine a world where comprehensive solutions manifest imminently to ease suffering, you probably aren’t fit for leadership. We need change now, this is absolute insanity. FUCK the perceived costs — it’s infinitely more costly to continue the current state of affairs while many, many countless individuals suffer and our precious and irreplaceable planet goes up in flames.

  • floo@retrolemmy.com
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    21 days ago

    There is no use in getting overwhelmed. I am merely getting more practiced in drinking larger and larger amounts of whiskey and smoking larger and larger amounts of marijuana to deal with it.

    We all have a process

    And hopefully, at least most of us will survive.

    If not, for all of you fascists: I have a plan to destroy all of you that involves an enormous amount of pee. Like, so much, you can’t fucking imagine. An absolute cavalcade of pee.

    Don’t try me

    • raoulduke85@lemm.ee
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      20 days ago

      After the election, I gave myself permission to become an alcoholic if I wanted. I don’t see a great future ahead.

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        Don’t do it. It’s not worth it. It makes you bitter more often than numb. It’s better for your mental health to channel your frustrations into something useful. Get involved somehow, make yourself useful for others. Collaborate with some direct aid org. Start making content on the internet where you speak your mind and talk about how you see the world, you might end up turning a few people.

        The thing I’ve noticed is that a lot of the alienation we feel is because most paid work doesn’t really touch people. It’s either too abstract (office work that only helps your company make money by servicing other companies so that they can make money) or direct servicing of disgruntled customers in a hurry (most customer facing work, like barista, cashier, call center, etc.). Really there’s few jobs where you feel like you do something worthwhile, so try to get involved in something for your soul, something that contributes to directly building the world you want to build.

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          I appreciate it. Even though my drinking has increased, I’ve actually become a community organizer in my city and it’s been therapeutic for me to hear people thanking us for organizing events where we build community and give people an outlet for their frustrations with the administration.

          I’m also living my life at this point with as much substance as I can have. I have health issues and when they roll back ACA protections, I’m really screwed. So I figured if I don’t have the luxury to grow old, I will do what I can for my community for the greater good.

          You seem like a really good person. Have a great day.

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            The future is still not written. There’s no reason to give up in advance as we really don’t know how things will shake out, there’s so much stuff happening. Make sure to make connections you can fall back on for rainy days. Hang in there, friend.

            Appreciate the kind words, you seem like a good person too.

    • FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com
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      21 days ago

      The rest of us, in the civilised world, watch on from behind our fingers in horror and bewilderment

      America is a classic case of the elephant chained to a small stake as a baby

      The learnt helplessness of the population is nuts

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        Bold of you to assume this post is limited to American neo-fascism. It absolutely resonated with me here in Germany. This “civilized world” you speak of - is it here in the room with us right now?

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          I never got the insistence of people that “stop immigration” would be a far-right thought.

          Being against immigration can have lots of reasons, primarily economical reasons. It objectively (I’d say) is a good thing that the birth rate is dropping, because that improves the socio-economic position of the people. I.e., it reduces the supply in workforce, which increases prices for labor (a.k.a. wages). And it also means that more resources are available per person, which reduces the cost of living.

          Yet, many people (especially the “greens”) seem to argue that we need more workers to fulfill the demands of our economy, which, frankly, is just bullshit and plainly wrong. … and that assumed need for more workers is then used as a justification to import people, as if they were a shippable product. It’s disgusting, really. First we start a war in the middle east; then we move the people to a foreign country. It’s a double shame.

          how about we fucking do neither.

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            Turkiye is fucked

            Not quite - or at least they have the best chance at recovery if (and that’s a big if) they can oust Erdoğan and his cronies. If they manage that, Turkiye would soon be more democratic than most of the EU in its present state.

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        Yeah, it seems to me, school is really just a process that mostly exists to teach you to adhere to nonsensical processes. At least that was largely how it was in my case.

        People are told to sit and listen for the first 18 years of their life, and then they’re told to stand up and do something the rest of their lifes.

        People are educated to not think for themselves, feel for themselves, and make life experiences. Everything is regulated. Parents have too much control. It takes a village to raise a child, yet we’ve normalized the “core-family”-household. What a perversion of nature.

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    20 days ago

    Yeah. Especially living in a society actively sliding towards some of the worst features described in some of the fictional worlds I enjoyed in novels coupled with a police state. It was never perfect, ever, but the amplification of the awful parts is really depressing.

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          20 days ago

          Hope is something that we all can have, we just have to nurture it and ground it into reality. If you can’t nurture it, you’re not broken or lesser.

          Personally, the fediverse has given me a lot of hope.

  • Novamdomum@fedia.io
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    When the weight of the world feels overwhelming, remember this: Everything humans have ever done, every building, road, machine, and moment, makes up only a tiny fraction of this planet’s mass. We are small creatures, clinging to the surface of a vast, ancient, quietly turning sphere. The Earth itself is not in crisis. It simply is. Steady, silent, and endlessly patient. If human noise becomes too much, just place your hand on the ground. Feel the stillness. Let it remind you that you are connected to something far older, far larger, and far more enduring than any headline or heartbreak. The Earth will hold you.

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      Everything humans have ever done, every building, road, machine, and moment, makes up only a tiny fraction of this planet’s mass.

      Oh boy do i have news for you

      … but i agree with you. Even if humanity ceases to exist for whatever reason, both the planet Earth and life/evolution will go on just fine. We’re a merely given a chance, but if we can make it, depends on us.

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        Or any number of innocent beings caught up in the worlds problems. I get you, but this is purely an immediate way to ground yourself when you’re feeling overwhelmed. It’s like the quiet giant under your feet all the time that you can connect with whenever you need to :)

  • Shardikprime@lemmy.world
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    20 days ago

    “We live in a dystopia”

    Said the dude

    With access to running water

    Food

    Medicines

    Rights

    Technology

    Opportunities

    Privileges

    That 99% of the whole world population doesn’t have and won’t ever have access to, even in their wildest dream

    This dude doesn’t need to worry about being sold into slavery

    Or leaving his country just to avoid persecution be it political or otherwise

    Or working 24/7 non stop

    Or being caged just to be a source of entertainment for others

    Having his limbs chopped for food.

    Being used as a tool to relieve sexual stress

    Being extorted into war and crime just to save his family lives

    Being forced to murder and rape perks just to not be murdered himself

    Or being used as a human shield against his will or else

    Having his organs harvested to pay debts

    Murder his own family and children to avoid them the pain of being abused and tortured to death

    All things that happens daily in our current world

    And yet he says he lives in a dystopia nightmare

    while sitting on his couch

    At his parents or his own house, owning property

    Stoned out of his mind

    On his latest generation phone that he probably got to pay for on easy installments or was gifted to him

    Having had breakfast and a good night sleep

    While having access to the sum of the whole world knowledge at his fingertips

    And working a couchy desk/customer service job which requires zero skill whatsoever

    Yes we hear you and feel so sorry about your pain. Let us commiserate together about how bad YOU have it.

    I’d like to think people like this are not real, but in case they are, I just wish them to experience the most slowest and agonizing of lives

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      Lists all the terrible awful things going on in the world.

      How dare you complain about the suffering of others, shut up and be happy you get to have the privilege which is built on said suffering.

      What a fucking take.

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        Yes we all are sure now that you don’t understand that is not the standard of living for everyone in the planet, hence hardly qualifying for a dystopia kennel

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          The fact that those things happen at all makes this a dystopia. No matter if you’re the person they happen to or not.

          The fact you don’t understand that those who don’t have to deal with the horrors of the world are still angered, hurt, and tired of them, even if they don’t deal with them directly, is very telling.

          The people you’re describing are bitching because their internet is slow, they’re observing the collapse of the American Empire as innocent people get whisked away to fucking death camps.

          They’re tired of the evils of the world, and they’re even more tired of said evils encroach on even more peoples daily lives.

          This shit isn’t rocket science.

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      You do realize that most people don’t know the truth, right? That the world doesn’t need to be the way it currently is? That we have the empathy, technology, and ingenuity to solve these issues with awareness and action?

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    20 days ago

    I sometimes wonder if I’ll ever be inspired again. Or feel motivated.

    Seeing a convict run amok and President really fucks with your mental health.

    Seeing the blatantly corrupt and evil people just makes it hard to care about anything anymore.

    I sometimes just stare in the dark night wondering why im still here when other people who wanted to do things are not here anymore.

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      19 days ago

      The eternal pendulum of nihilism and existentialism.

      Nihilism, there is no meaning. Existential, there is no meaning, so find meaning.

      If you can, find a reason. Find that meaning. And, if nothing else, live and love out of spite. One day, you’ll wake up to the obituaries (naturally caused; no martyrs here please) of the awful people. And you’ll never have to think on them again, ideally.

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      Its cyclical, there is no end or beginning just a chain of actions. Might not be the fun part od the circle but it goes around again, we will see better days.

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    Alexei Yurchak who was a professor of anthropology coined a term for this: Hypernormalisation.

    From Wikipedia: “He introduced the word in his book ‘Everything Was Forever, Until It Was No More: The Last Soviet Generation’, which describes paradoxes of Soviet life during the 1970s and 1980s. He says everyone in the Soviet Union knew the system was failing, but no one could imagine any alternative to the status quo, and politicians and citizens alike were resigned to maintaining the pretense of a functioning society. Over time, the mass delusion became a self-fulfilling prophecy, with everyone accepting it as the new norm rather than pretend.”

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      This is where I feel democratic leadership is at right now. The fact no one is stepping up, rallying a cause, spearheading any sort of movement including “let’s protect what we’ve already got” just absolutely no leadership from the left seems like they just can’t fathom reality being anything other than what it is right now. I’ve been incredibly disappointed by the disappearing act both Harris and Walz have pulled and consider them failures due to this lack of leadership when we need it most, they ran for leadership of the opposition party but clearly have zero interest in actually leading in any form beyond titles/formally and this explains why, although does not excuse their behavior