When you try to ignore someone because they are being an ass while drunk, and try to sleep on the couch, and they yell at you to get in bed, then they bash you in the back of the head with there with their phone while you are laying their facing the other direction, they say, “call the cops, they’ll arrest you”. Is it true. Could be. Im back on the couch and under control but man could I use someone to talk to. Im so tired of being abused and treated like shit. I know I don’t deserve this shit, but fuck does it hurt and I won’t let myself yell. I won’t allow myself to fall to that level. If they want to be that way, that’s them. But I need to be better. Yes, I know I’m dumb. 35 years dumb lol
My ex has done nearly the exact same thing. It wasn’t a phone she hit me with though.
Well last big event left a bleeding claw mark (March 2024) over my ear and when the officers asked about it I told them I’d never say she did something… Probably a mistake.
I got arrested for that. Her dad picked me up from jail. She went through similar situations with her mother before she passed. Whether her dad understands or not, I’m not sure, but if your mother calls the police for assault multiple times on a child, and it happens with anyone else she is reliant on, I imagine he knows but has to be a good father.
(Charges were dismissed by the judge of course, as all evidence was I was attacked, and they arrested me because I was the guy)