During my first playthrough I eventually came to the conclusion that I’ll never progress much further if i keep building every small item one by one. I do not have much time to play the game, so blueprints came in handy. Since then I have never looked back.
You’re totally right though, there are many ways to play the game and they are all enjoyable. I bet there’s even players roleplaying a nomadic, explorative playstyle.
This sounds quite specific for something you had to experience multiple times. Hope the people are ok and you found something better to work for.