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  • gerikson@awful.systemstoSneerClub@awful.systems•Oliver Habryka truly understands the soul of SneerClubEnglish
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    9 days ago

    An update, a Concerned Citizen furrows their brow and Has Questions on how this was handled, about a week later

    https://lobste.rs/s/zoirhl/appealing_ban_user_friendlysock

    A predictable shitshow erupts, which leads to the creator of Anubis quitting the site, along with a few others.

    At least I get more entries in my “lobste.rs assholes” list.

    Worth noting is this text from the mod (https://lobste.rs/s/zoirhl/appealing_ban_user_friendlysock#c_6prapm)

    This pattern was that every couple years there’d be a long string of cruel, dismissive, or discouraging comments. Not necessarily wrong, not outright abusive, not spam, not any one over the line, but all of them… just endless “ugh, this guy again?” and other users, more or less quietly, leaving rather than deal with it. This final comment called out in the modlog is one more example. The entire goal of the rhetoric is that it’s not explicit, it’s not outright libelous, it doesn’t even take personal responsibility for holding the opinion of the smear it insinuates. It’s deniable out of context, whether the missing context is the author’s writing history or the missing context is the old bigotry that trans people are pedophiles.

    I’m not missing that context. The only thing I’m missing is the charity to think that somehow this time it’s different, that after a decade, this time it will the last time would be the last time I have to explain that this is a community where everybody’s going to be treated with some basic dignity. The other mods suggested the idea of a public apology but that didn’t work out, and absent a persuasive reason to expect this pattern wouldn’t continue, this ban stands.