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  • fuckgod@feddit.onlinetoOpen Source@lemmy.mlHelium Browser
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    10 months ago

    Don’t even get me started. I’ve always hated Apple for this kind of stuff, and now they’re making Android even worse, piece by piece.

    And given that society is dependent on phones, we’re all fucked. I don’t know if a Linux phone can do much given how it’s mostly non capitalistic. I wish though. But adoption-wise I don’t know if it could be a contender anyway. I’m not well-versed in it, but I’m just assuming the worst since the world is falling apart right now and my hope gland needs surgery. 😭




  • Everybody kinda already said the obvious answers, but I’ll pop in to reiterate that my main reason was killing the API (because fuuuuuuck their shitty trash app filled with ads- or any and every app that has ads at all). I got here (Lemmy and piefed and mastodon)as part of the mass exodus that switched when the ax dropped on that.

    I had wanted to before that, but addictions are addictions. But killing the app I actually liked using (combined with the dev making a Lemmy version that was extremely similar), I just kinda rode the wave to the Fediverse.

    So like others, I still poke in when a search result points there, but I avoid it in general. Getting rid of the app will definitely help because it gets rid of the 1-tap access to shit.




  • Tbf, “unalive” is only a thing because of TikTok, unless they’re pushing the same content to both platforms, when they have to go with the most restrictive version of their combined rules.

    And even then most of the problem is keeping it monetized, not necessarily the platforms during it down directly.

    But since videos are a career now, it’s a fairly effective ban on certain words.

    TikTok is way way waaaay too picky imo. Personally I don’t want anything censored at all, for any reason.

    Unless someone is going ham on a topic that’s triggers you into some PTSD situation, I don’t really think there’s a good argument for censorship to exist in any form at all.

    If some idiot is using language you don’t like you just stop listening to them and realize that when you’re scrolling through an non-curated source of content, you will hear idiots saying stupid shit.

    But the action taken on them shouldn’t be an effective gag, it should be just getting ignored. Once blocked and ignored enough, it’s basically a shadow ban. It wouldn’t be profitable for them to be offensive just for the sake of being offensive, but they shouldn’t be getting what basically amounts to fines just because they said someone "died"or got “killed”.

    That kinda shit is bonkers.







  • That’s what I was trying to get at in the previous comment. I don’t have much else to relate it to. It’s hard to speak about it without referring to the only examples I know of.

    And lacking any other vocabulary, I feel like I’m stuck in the Darmok episode of Next Generation in terms of that topic. Not sure how familiar you are with Star Trek to know if this makes sense to you. (The short version is speaking in historical metaphor due to a lack in language. Great episode tho, one of my favorites.)

    Which is again using a media example, I guess, but for my own situation this time lol. Hope I didn’t offend. I’m not trying to imply they’re similar, I just don’t know another way to say it so I’m using the language I have to get as close as I can relative to my current understanding. Definitely not trying to attach everything else about the examples I use, but just the individual ideas.



  • See now I’m imagining if I read that 10 years ago and how I would have interpreted (much less felt) differently, versus how I read this now.

    I had heard of some of those communities before, but only vaguely referenced. Haven’t really heard much about it, but at the time I was hearing about it I still hated gay people, so did I know about people identifying as other species? I didn’t understand the phrase “identify as”.

    So I am still playing catch up on stuff.

    Now that that makes more sense, I need to go back. For being multiple entities, is it like, I don’t have the vocabulary for this so pardon the expression, is it like vessels commandeered by multiple observers, or more like a multiple personality thing, or what? I feel that sounds bad but I don’t know how else to phrase it. I’m not trying to call it a medical diagnosis, I’m just curious about it.


  • Man I’ve been suggested to get tested for that. But around the time they were staying to talk about it more I had a more life and death thing come up.

    Haven’t really been back to the GP in a bit. He’ll probably bring it up later this year when I go back for a physical. But if rather stay like this than have the mask. Ain’t no way I’m sleeping with that on. I roll back and forth constantly. Feel like my guts really wanna slowly ooze down (which when laying on your side, means side to side) constantly. I can sleep on my back, and usually do I think. But I can’t fall asleep with anything near my face or restricting my movement at all.

    Using some kinda noise helps the restful part a lot though. Colored noise, muffled voices (as in sounds like conversations down the hall, muffled by a few walls), nature sounds (especially thunder and rain and crickets), and whatever those singing bowls are called do wonders for me.

    But even when I get tested, the first few hours usually have to happen before my brain is firing on all cylinders. So about 90 minutes or so before lunch I will finally be all there.


  • Fair enough. I’ve only really had much discussion about a lot of this stuff with a trans sibling. I’ve learned a lot from him. His coming out was one of the last big (sorry to use the word again but I’ve been using this metaphor already) cracks in the glass dome or sphere or snow globe or whatever in the ceiling of my old beliefs before it shattered, allowing me to become atheist, liberal/leftist, queer-friendly, you know, just a much better person overall.

    So I heard it first from him and haven’t really discussed it (aka egg cracking) in any other context.

    So now I have another phrase for it at my disposal.

    In other news, after looking at the profile I both understand more and have more questions.

    And given the request to ask instead of assume, I would like to do so.

    First, from what I can gather the use of we seems to come from identifying with a group that identifies as a community.

    So first question is, is that correct, and if so what community/communities?

    Scratch that, the previous app I was using didn’t show the word plural as a link, and now that I’m trying another one I see it. Nvm

    And secondly, I definitely gotta ask about what you mean about the not human thing.

    You can roll your eyes at me and leave me on read if you want though lol. No pressure.