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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • Yes, unfortunately i think you’ve missed a few things.

    1. Anyone can be sued for anything, whether the suit is successful depends on validity and damages
    2. It would be difficult to prove damages in this case, but you don’t need to sue anyone anyway
    3. Only businesses and organisations serving the public are required to follow the ADA
    4. The government, if it received enough
      valid complaints and received a negative reply from a place which needs to follow the ADA might consider bringing legal action or enforcing penalties
    5. Common practise does not exclude the possibility that something discriminates against people, which is why these rules were written

    I think that about covers it






  • I very much understand this feeling. There’s plenty of things I do for the same safety of nostalgia reason. It’s not altogether a bad coping mechanism, but like every coping mechanism, it has its limits, and you have found them.

    I do have some good news for you though:

    and realise that ever since that day years ago where I finally made it back to a normal life, I’ve only made 2 new core memories really.

    This may not be true at all. People have trouble recalling memories of feeling differently to however they’re currently feeling, especially with depression. Good memories are still being created and are in there though, you just can’t access them in long storage right now. Another person in the thread said therapy and the right medication, and that is how I’ve largely managed to get depression mostly under control. When I’m doing well, the good memories are much easier to relive. Memory is complicated like that.

    I still eat a diet of mostly instant noodles and other cheap shit

    I recommend starting here though. Even if it’s just adding in a daily multivitamin at first instead of really being healthy and eating right. The cheap nostalgic food is not something you need to completely give up, but it needs to be a treat instead of your staple. Nutrition has a huge impact on depression, like, an annoying amount of impact. If you can get some better nutrition in you, and a little real sunlight, and even just a short walk, your body is much more likely to generate and circulate the good feeling hormones. It’s hard at first, but it does get easier.

    You’ve been through a lot. There’s nothing pathetic about how you feel or your life. There is no such thing as “behind”. New friends are everywhere, and many have been through similar hard times and depression. But it does sound a lot like you would benefit from a little more balance with the things you already know are good for you.

    Good luck. The past is comfortable, but there are new things out there that will bring you comfort too, and they’re worth looking for.









  • Even if we ignored the entire history of the word cripple, it still would be remarkable to not consider hunchback or dwarf as physical descriptions. Given that your next question references video games and then we fall down Godwin’s slippery slope, I’m not convinced you’re honestly engaging with the concept of connotation.

    the words only have deragatory meaning to those who have decided they are such.

    Yes, and when the people who have to live with the consequences of discrimination tell you that you’re speaking in the same way as those who have discriminated against them, it’s worth considering. Even momentarily.

    Have a great day, I’m going to go be a cripple elsewhere now. Nah, just kidding, it will still be my couch. Just not this thread.