18 tf
they/she
weird creature
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coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•does my voice pass?English
0·6 months agooh wow, that’s not “properly trained”?
coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•why the hell do i need to validate my identity to new people in psychologyEnglish
0·7 months agoI didn’t ask for a psychologist, my parents made me see one. I hate saying this but, I need someone for tricking my parents to get me hrt. There’s no way I can get my blood levels checked by myself.
coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•how was your first quarter of 21st century?English
9·10 months agowas born in this century, pretty cool thing i must say as a former unborn person
coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Oh my fucking good, estrogen feels amazingEnglish
0·10 months agocan you say that your cognitive abilities improved?
coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Got my balls destroyed todayEnglish
0·11 months agodid you ask if you can keep them
coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Somehow I am suddenly starting to resonate with women way more than I do with men (Alternative title: Women are awesome)English
0·11 months agothis makes me wish i had a larger queer friend group
coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•I made BIR-style vindaloo 👩🏼🍳English
0·1 year agowhat does the gel itself taste like?
coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•The success of other people transitioning seems to be quite a trigger for my dysphoriaEnglish
0·1 year agoDamn, that’s a lot.
Yeah, I dissociate a lot, haha.
Anyways, they will get used to you doing stuff you like, they usually need to get past their trans and other stigma (which can take a really long time). If your city has a support group for parents of queer children, you can try signing them up.
coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•The success of other people transitioning seems to be quite a trigger for my dysphoriaEnglish
0·1 year agoAs a person who’s been in the closet for the last 4 years, I share the same struggles as you, I’ll see someone sharing their transition story/timeline on other social media platforms and get a mood hit instantly.
Seeing other transgender people is basically a reality check for me, reminding me of the harsh reality I live in, the person I actually am, and what it can be.
Hang in there, probably everything will be alright!!
coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•How did you settle on a name?English
0·1 year agojust stole it from one of my friends
poor girl is now left unnamed…
coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•is there a sub in here to vent about dysphoria?English
0·2 years agoit’s totally fine
coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto
Ask Me Anything@lemmy.ca•I'm a 41-year-old trans woman who's been stealth for over 20 years, AMAEnglish
0·2 years agodo you ever forget that you’re trans?
coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•psychiatrist prescribed antidepressants instead of the actual stuff I needEnglish
0·2 years agoI would need the puberty blockers prescribed to me, as I don’t have money to buy those myself, and my parents could look up what the medicine does
coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•psychiatrist prescribed antidepressants instead of the actual stuff I needEnglish
0·2 years agoI’m pretty sure that they’re not supportive, they didn’t learn that I’m trans or anything so I’m fine-ish.
Appointment wasn’t bad but wasn’t really good either, she told me that pills were for to down dysphoria ramblings.
coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto
Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•psychiatrist prescribed antidepressants instead of the actual stuff I needEnglish
0·2 years agoi wanted to go to therapy to sort things out without transitioning (i can’t transition for another at least 2 years because i’m a minor), i’m pretty sure that i’ll screw things up if i don’t get help
about planned parenthood, i was planning to move the us when i completed high school but after the last election i don’t think they will be able to give hrt this easily when trump is midway through his presidency


how’s Ontario when it comes to LGBTQ rights? is informed consent a thing there?