you pretty much quote my point, which is why I talk about low cost in my original reply (yes I said no co coat at first because the spirit is prevent comunity barriers)
if the cost is high enough to be a barrier to entry it’s not rally a 3rd space in spirit even if it is called a name in his list
which given murica today isn’t American coffee shops in his day
buy a 12$ late then get the fuck out is not a 3rd space
I’m aware and the creator of the term would be opposed but capitalism is good at subsuming all criticism
yea pretty sure 3rd spaces require no cost
park / library
don’t think coffee shop counts but maybe the idea is low cost?
they are cute but they stink and they chew
gachas are japanese in origin
talk to me when our president isn’t geriatric
yep vintage story is fun
i wrote a simple program to wiggle my mouse
you can guess why
it was a rip off from a coworker’s program
Removed by mod
clearly some problems need to be taken from behind
the labor is
rich fucks love under the table workers
so what does this do?
is it a punishment?
currently the us is in the late 50s and quickly heading to the early 30s
if that’s what you want to take away from this go for it lol im done with what I wanted to say after this
the nuance is that even crappy people can have worthwhile observations
that you can’t seem to get past his conclusions and separate the wheat from the chaff isn’t on me
that you keep trying to handwave this like women don’t massively have issues with platonic male relationships while we’re in a toxic masculinity post is again lol
women are choosing the bear but you think somehow it’s all better as friends?
the are so many examples of women complaining about this issue if you spend any time in female dominated subs
you keep attributing to me words I’ve not actually said lol
I’m neither the guy in the post nor whatever this strawman is you are building
reading these literal paragraphs of you arguing with yourself is kinda painful
more like rich and powerful people want stupid masses
stop blaming these issues on individuals when the whole system is setup to fuck them into this mess
anymore than individuals can fix our plastics or fossil fuel issues
you keep trying to frame it like I don’t think he’s controlling or that I support his conclusion
as to pretty women developing skills all you got to do is read a bit on the internet or hell female biographies for that matter to see how bullshit that is
just because you develop tools to cope and defend yourself doesn’t mean it doesn’t fuck you up, some do ok but plenty don’t
so yea it’s gonna be really really really hard for a pretty woman to have honest male friendships, that’s the nuance, not the turd boyfriend you keep trying to focus this on
nothing is nuanced about his behavior, for sure it is shit and controlling
what’s nuanced is how male relationships behave in modern western cultures(US specifically) and pointing out how a pretty woman is going to have a real hard time finding genuine male friendships
and snark aside most his friends are probably not interested in fucking him as only about 1/5th are openly gay
“this is temporary test code that should be removed before delivery to the customer”
this is real