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Cake day: May 18th, 2024

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  • If you want to discover new things, just push yourself to try one thing per week you’ve never tried before, no matter what that is. It can be scary, but you will find as many new things you enjoy as there are things you don’t enjoy. For music, I like to listen to different genres because that lets me explore many new artists with an overarching musical theme that I know I enjoy. So like I know I love grunge, probably not gonna be a hard experience to get into Mother Love Bone. Or I’ll pick an all new genre and get a feel for it.

    Relatability is a tough concept, because in my experience that’s one of the gaps that’s super hard to bridge between NT/ND communication. It’s not really possible to make yourself more relatable, because others have to relate to you, and that’s subjective from person to person because that’s something they have to do in their own head. But, I have found the more you try to relate to other people, the more they try to relate to you. So take that how you will.











  • The best way is to ask questions about something that the person obviously puts thought into.

    “Those shoes are sweet, where did you get them?”

    “Gnarly hair dude, who’s your stylist?”

    “Yo this chicken piccata you made is tubular man.”

    Be engaged and ask follow up questions, people love talking about themselves. Soon enough you’ve gotten to know them, and you just say hey and be friendly every interaction after.









  • Yes, in local elections. No, in national elections. Even if everyone dropped the DNC and voted a third party into the Presidential office, third parties don’t just appear as permanent major contenders due to winning one election. Not to mention the congressional support they’d need to pass anything. You sound kinda like me when I was younger, so I really do hope you’re trolling so you can avoid the sudden realization of what exactly you’re suggesting. Splitting the vote is a real thing that can happen if a majority faction schisms into two minority factions. Unless you’re absolutely positive that whatever third party is already going to get more votes than Harris, voting third party is splitting the progressive vote. If you want to establish a third party, go out into your county and campaign for one at a local level. Get a regional voter base and work toward a congressional campaign. Seriously, nobody’s stopping you. I would love to see people doing that. But please don’t pretend this pipe dream of electing a third party straight to the highest office in the land (with no legislative or judicial support) is the answer to the future.