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Cake day: November 24th, 2025

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  • Honestly it sounds to me like your wife was testing the waters for you: She knows you’re not out to your buddy so she pushes ideas that might bring him to react in a way that’s exposing his ideologies. Painting nails is a thing a bunch of cis men do as well with their wifes or daughters so it could be brushed off as that were the buddy to react negatively to it exposing him as not safe at the same time. Straight up getting him she’s bigender is also a way to out an unsafe person without endangering you in the process. Also please don’t blame everything on her being manic as if that removes conscious thoughts from your head. She might’ve had a plan as outlined above. She should’ve maybe discussed it with you first if so but maybe the plan came fairly spontaneously



  • Why do you think all these people were driven by cynicism? Why do you hold yourself to be so above “the average person” that you can’t even communicate with them? Why do you consider cynicism such a strong driving force and curiosity so weak? Also your example of a person walking in a random direction in a forest is peak curisity behaviour. Curiosity is walking where no one has been to see where it leads. Why would that not be what drives new discoveries?