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    10 days ago

    I find this kind of idea insulting because it’s essentially saying, you’re objectively not beautiful and ugly is my kink.

    What’s better is to just say that you don’t care if someone is ugly, you love them anyway for other reasons.

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        7 days ago

        I meant that if someone said that phrase to me, that’s what I’d like to hear instead because that’s just how I value the way they look at me. But yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder for sure.