What that individual has, is a sexual kink, not identity. To that end, I have to disagree that they are not harming anyone. It is unethical and wildly inappropriate to have others participate in your kinks without consent. Frankly, it is disgusting they not only feel entitled to force the participation of others, but they are dressing their behavior as though they are an oppressed person. I, and many others, do not consent to participating in their kink activity with their partner.
I’ll assume it’s not neopronouns, as that’s just pronouns? And tbh I do not know drag, so I hadon’t know if there is anything else you’re referring to?
Drag uses drag/dragself pronouns because drag is a dragon rider. Drag has been in relationships with many dragons, both platonic and romantic. Even when drag was single, being a dragon rider was still part of drag.
“You can take the dog out of the fight but you can’t take the fight out of the dog” or something.
I disagree. There are abundant cis women and cis men who go to malls, schools, bars, and streets wearing clothes that they believe make themselves look sexy. If using someone’s sexually charged custom pronouns is considered participating in kink then I’d argue going outside wearing anything vaguely sexual like a crop top is also the same level of participating in kink and that is simply accepted by society.
Just existing or looking appealing to sexual partners is not kink nor limited to cis individuals. What an awful argument. This individual is expecting others to help with their personal sexual arousal and playing victim when they refuse to participate. They are a goddamn sex pest.
What that individual has, is a sexual kink, not identity. To that end, I have to disagree that they are not harming anyone. It is unethical and wildly inappropriate to have others participate in your kinks without consent. Frankly, it is disgusting they not only feel entitled to force the participation of others, but they are dressing their behavior as though they are an oppressed person. I, and many others, do not consent to participating in their kink activity with their partner.
Have to ask, what’s this kink?
I’ll assume it’s not neopronouns, as that’s just pronouns? And tbh I do not know drag, so I hadon’t know if there is anything else you’re referring to?
Dragon Fucking, apparently, and their pronoun is an extension of that.
Yeah they’ve said in another comment that their pronouns are draf/dragself because their partner is a dragon. I’m 100% sure the person is trolling
Drag uses drag/dragself pronouns because drag is a dragon rider. Drag has been in relationships with many dragons, both platonic and romantic. Even when drag was single, being a dragon rider was still part of drag.
“You can take the dog out of the fight but you can’t take the fight out of the dog” or something.
I disagree. There are abundant cis women and cis men who go to malls, schools, bars, and streets wearing clothes that they believe make themselves look sexy. If using someone’s sexually charged custom pronouns is considered participating in kink then I’d argue going outside wearing anything vaguely sexual like a crop top is also the same level of participating in kink and that is simply accepted by society.
Just existing or looking appealing to sexual partners is not kink nor limited to cis individuals. What an awful argument. This individual is expecting others to help with their personal sexual arousal and playing victim when they refuse to participate. They are a goddamn sex pest.
I used cis individuals as representative of the majority (who accepts themselves) rather than an exclusive group.
The difference between a kink and a social custom is how much we’re used to it
Thank you for outlining this, I’ve never really thought about it that way