Married since 2018.

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        1 month ago

        You said 9 years. 31-9=22

        I think it’s gross for a dude in his fifties to be sexing up a 22 year old. It’s weird.

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          That’s when we started dating, not married. Plus even by that timeline it’s wrong, it’d be 22 & 53. There are people who find gay, trans, interracial, interreligious, poly, etc. relationships “weird and gross”. I don’t find any relationships between consenting adults weird and gross, because I know people have different wants, desires and comfort levels and my experience is not universal. Maybe try being less judgmental. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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            1 month ago

            I don’t find anything wrong with any of the relationships you listed. Unless of course someone who is barely an adult is getting pursued by someone in their 50s. Dude sounds like a predator or something. Good luck with the skeletons in his closet!

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              22 and 25 are “barely an adult”? In what world? Predator for pursuing a grown adult? Hmmm… and why do you assume he pursued me? I pursued him. Thank you for the weird condescension, it’s been 9 amazing years with no skeletons in the closet. As I’ve said, lay off the judgement, it ages you…

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                22 and 25 are “barely an adult”?

                In today’s society where most people this age are still living with their parents? For sure.

                A grown ass man sexing up someone half their age? Yes. Gross.

                Anyway you got like what, another 10 years before his dementia start kicking in?