If you haven’t heard this cliche while discussing your neurodivergency with someone, then I envy your luck. Yesterday I fucked up, I feel shitty, but also I am pissed.

Our brains are impulsive af and tend to forget the most important information. We mess up, our RSD (and empathy) kicks in, we feel terrible, we vow to be more careful, but guess what? Thats fucking exhausting.

As a result, we start overthinking our every waking moment, stressing over every little thing. Because, we are trying to be aware of the things we cannot perceive.

At some point, hopefully we realize that we cannot live like that, and we start to arbitrarily ignore our compulsion to overthink. Most often that works out great because most often the threat is not real, but sometimes we make the wrong call.

The times we overthink are still more than the times we do not, and we still mess up. Let us have our fucking peace.

  • slazer2au@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    The thing I learnt is only assholes expect you to remember 100% of thing 100% of the time.

    If you get asked something you can always delay them by saying “I added that to our documentation, let me pull it up”

    Now suddenly you go from someone others think as doesn’t know anything, to the person who actually updates documentation with evolving changes.