• nikaaa@lemmy.world
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      3 months ago

      also some minor mental illnesses

      I don’t like to call it “mental illnesses” because it makes it look like it’s a property of the person; however, it is a property of society:

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      honestly when i was a kid i always picked male characters (despite being afab) because “the clothes looked better”, fast forward a couple of years, i transitioned to male and i realised i used video games as my main escape from worsening gender dysphoria

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        I knew a guy who used that exact same reasoning to play female characters. It’s funny how the way you want to look in a videogame can sort of tap into subconscious desires sometimes.

        “Obviously I couldn’t dress like that IRL because of gender rules, but since I can choose my gender in this game…”

        It’s sort of like The Button thought experiment.

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          Girls just have better clothes in general. I like clothes shopping with my daughter all the outfits and dresses are so cute and fun, theres so much variety! Clothes shopping for my son is such a bore :/

          For reference I am dad, and theyre both in elementary school.