• funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    if you love what you do…

    for me the greater challenge is that so many kinksters are actually very tedious people who really want to tell you about their sex lives in lieu of an actual conversation

    • Seven@startrek.website
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      1 year ago

      A friend of a friend once talked me into going to a munch, where some scenes were going to be done. I’m interested in seeing new things and try to be open to having my horizons broadened, so I figured why not?

      I have to say, not only did I find it intensely boring, it was also about as much of a turn-off as I can imagine any in-person experience being.

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          1 year ago

          Yeah, munch is basically kink recess. It’s a get together for the community that is almost explicitly non-sexual, just because it’s good and useful to have some time set aside for that.

          Now, to be completely honest, I’ve never seen the appeal. I’m not in the scene to talk about the scene. But I appreciate the benefits of them for people that want that social aspect.

  • paddirn@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    At this point it’s not just for kinks, it’s for modern sexuality and dating in general.

  • feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I have a kink for white cotton camisoles and croptops, the thin material ones. I don’t know where it came from but it’s very strong. If I felt that way about feet I’d consider myself odd. Is there an acronym for this?

  • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    It’s not that bad you just have to start with a 4 letter acronym that means 6 words and from there you pick up a bunch of new acronyms that already mean something else to you and will randomly be used for their normal meaning without warning just to test if you’re paying attention

  • RBWells@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Not kink exactly but I had a boss who abbreviated Due To/From (when one segment of the business owes another for something) as DTF and I never figured out if he was trolling us, or had just never seen it used.