• TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    Stopped being in shitty relationships and dating crappy women.

    Turns out it’s easy to have self-esteem and pride and accomplish shit when you don’t have someone telling you how shitty you are every other day.

  • stoy@lemmy.zip
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    9 months ago

    Getting smart lights at home.

    I live in Sweden, I also live alone, this means that for about a third of the year it is dark when I get home. Which means that when I open my apartment it is just a dark and depressing hole that I stepped into.

    With smart lights I can turn on some of the lights before I open the door, and get to step into a lit apartment with mood lighting active, it has had a huge impact on my mental health over the last six years.

    My main lights are still normal dumb lights, but the hue system is amazing.

  • AllonzeeLV@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    Just generally in life?

    Care less.

    Even if you think you don’t care anymore, there is another level of caring in the back of your head that you need to kill.

    Every social construct you’re told you should care about makes you a little more miserable.

    Nothing matters, it’s all made up by people trying to manipulate you. Do the bare minimum of what you need to do to get to what you genuinely enjoy. No one will ever think fondly about what an adult or professional you were, it’s just manipulation. Humanity is a bad joke of unearned self-importance.

    Care less.