For bottom surgery in December! I’m super excited, especially since I was originally staring down a 3 year timeline back in July. Had a consultation earlier this week and it went amazingly well! I feel decently prepared, but please share any tips for the lead up or recovery. Eeeeep!

  • Eskarina (she/her)@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    7 days ago

    It may seem like I’m rushing through my transition and, from the outside perspective, that I’m being rash and not thinking things through. But in reality, these feelings have just been at critical mass for a long time, I just didnt say anything about it until now.

    Yeah, think that’s the same for me. At the start there may even have been some truth to it, like I was so eager to get into the permanent changes that I’d get that sunken cost fallacy going and wouldn’t think about chickening out. The typical cis urge to get irreversibly changed to the opposite gender and then having to live with it, huh 😅.

    But well, I was insanely good at repressing these feelings, even though they’ve been there for a very long time. Now I’ve been on this journey for more than 6 months now and haven’t really thought about stopping for a single second.

    Lmao I am thankful that transitioning unlocked this sassy, spicy, bitchy side of me that helps propel my self advocacy.

    Awwww giiiiirl, I couldn’t have dreamt of the confidence I got from finding my true self, it’s really insane, isn’t it? <3

    I’m psyched for you too! And jealous, ofc :3