• starchylemming@lemmy.world
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        17 days ago

        does it only apply to women?

        what about ramontic gay couples snacking a third platonically? is that a rhinoceros ?

        also some straight couples look for a man, you gotta be flexible you know

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          17 days ago

          My wife and I are in the lifestyle.

          It’s incredibly easy to find a male third.

          A bisexual woman who is willing to join a heterosexual couple is much much harder to find. That’s why they call em unicorns.

          • cranakis@reddthat.com
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            17 days ago

            So true. Or a truly bisexual 3rd, man or woman. Hard to find. Straight or mostly straight dudes are everywhere.

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            17 days ago

            Wow, I found it much, much more difficult to find bisexual men wanting threesomes than women. But that may simply be because it was easier as a woman to find other women to join.

            I consider both men and women willing to join couples unicorns.

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          17 days ago

          When you’re a dude in your 20s, the husband is in his 60s, and the wife is in her 40s, there’s a good chance he’s more of a observer than a participant.