Telling trans men that they should stay women in order to remain good people is bullying. Assuming that there are no trans men in any given space is a form of cissexism. Many trans men will not appreciate your comment, nor will they appreciate “but you don’t count as a man, so I wasn’t talking about you.”
It costs nothing to put “cis” in front of “man” if you’re trying to punch up at straight people specifically. We both know you know what that word means.
I am aware that these women will never stop trying to harm people in their own community with transphobia. I didn’t say what I said because I thought it would change them. I said what I said because I had to say it.
I don’t believe the intentions were pure here. This user took a comment about misandry entirely out of context in an attempt to paint another user as a transphobe.
Wow way to take a joke out of context because no place does it say trans men. So should I be offended because the poster is telling me to be a trans women.
if you’re a cis man there is absolutely no reason for you to be offended OR to insert yourself into this conversation. This is not for or about you right now.
You should know that you’re presenting the exact kind of attitude that alienates people. The conversation you’re now saying has no place for cis men never made any such distinction in the first place. That was something you created to be angry about.
If we discount the misogynistic roots of the comment you originally replied to, we would find a comment that was about the view misandrists have on men. This made no exception for cis or trans men, and in fact, would realistically include them equally, since I’m pretty sure a misandrist wouldn’t like a trans man any more than a cis man.
The point is, the aspect of this conversation that you’re angry about and gatekeeping over originated with you.
I can see why trans men feel excluded and bullied to suicide by you and all that.
weird. i don’t bully trans men. but i have seen a lot of women who do on twitter and other online spaces.
almost like my comment here was alluding to them specifically, but that would be sarcasm. and that doesn’t exist on the internet.
Telling trans men that they should stay women in order to remain good people is bullying. Assuming that there are no trans men in any given space is a form of cissexism. Many trans men will not appreciate your comment, nor will they appreciate “but you don’t count as a man, so I wasn’t talking about you.”
It costs nothing to put “cis” in front of “man” if you’re trying to punch up at straight people specifically. We both know you know what that word means.
Look up Poe’s law
“It’s just a prank bro” “its just a joke bro” “its sarcasm bro”
These, to me, are merely confessions of wrongdoing combined with a middle finger.
your intentions are pure but your time and energy would be better spent elsewhere
I am aware that these women will never stop trying to harm people in their own community with transphobia. I didn’t say what I said because I thought it would change them. I said what I said because I had to say it.
I don’t believe the intentions were pure here. This user took a comment about misandry entirely out of context in an attempt to paint another user as a transphobe.
Wow way to take a joke out of context because no place does it say trans men. So should I be offended because the poster is telling me to be a trans women.
if you’re a cis man there is absolutely no reason for you to be offended OR to insert yourself into this conversation. This is not for or about you right now.
But I’m a cis man, EVERYTHING is about me! /s
You should know that you’re presenting the exact kind of attitude that alienates people. The conversation you’re now saying has no place for cis men never made any such distinction in the first place. That was something you created to be angry about.
If we discount the misogynistic roots of the comment you originally replied to, we would find a comment that was about the view misandrists have on men. This made no exception for cis or trans men, and in fact, would realistically include them equally, since I’m pretty sure a misandrist wouldn’t like a trans man any more than a cis man.
The point is, the aspect of this conversation that you’re angry about and gatekeeping over originated with you.