• Wahots@pawb.social
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    3 days ago

    People definitely dance here, but I’m usually going to gay bars or weddings. I support stickers over cameras, too. If you are going out with friends, you might as well have a good time rather than just being buried in your phone all night.

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      2 days ago

      Back in my day when you pulled out your phone in a gay space you kept your finger over the camera or you stepped into a corner. Not everyone there was necessarily out back in those days.

      Ok but for real, it was definitely the encouraged etiquette but it didnt have enough adherence to be what you did

  • IhaveCrabs111@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    Fear of people using their smartphones and filming you without consent and then posting it all over the internet for their own clout is prevent people from dancing

    FTFY

  • Damage@feddit.it
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    4 days ago

    Didn’t I read somewhere that today’s youth drinks less alcohol? I know when I was young I wouldn’t be caught “dancing” at the club unless I was closer to puking than to slurred speech.

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    4 days ago

    I only go to raves and specific artist/label events these days, so I’m not too sure what’s happening in mainstream clubs on a Saturday night. In my experience, the dance floor is always full later in the night and people are enjoying the music and having fun. Interesting to note that one guy quoted in the article complained about people “just jumping” instead of dancing - that’s the result of genre trends in electronic music, not social media or smartphones changing our behaviour. The more popular mainstream club genres for at least the last decade have been house sub-genres like Big Room that are festival-friendly and designed to be jumped to.

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      3 days ago

      How is the genre different from the main floor trance 30 years ago at large festivals? This description I found makes it sound the same (and I listened to the suggested artists)…

      Big room dancing refers to a style of electronic dance music (EDM) that is characterized by its high-energy, anthemic melodies, and powerful drops. It is often associated with the mainstage sound of large EDM festivals and is known for its use of powerful basslines, heavy synths, and a four-on-the-floor beat.

      Big room tracks are typically designed to fill large venues and create a vibrant atmosphere for dancing.

      The genre has evolved over the years, with some artists exploring a harder, more techno-driven sound.

      Key elements of big room music include a strong bassline, simple melodies, dynamic build-ups and drops, and a minimalist production approach.

      Some of the most influential big room artists include Martin Garrix, Hardwell, Dimitri Vegas & Like Mike, and KSHMR.

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    4 days ago

    I’m not sure if this is anything new, but maybe it’s getting worse. Most of my friends when I was younger wouldn’t do anything more than the “stand still and sway” method of dancing because they didn’t want to look silly.

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      4 days ago

      When I was young, the phrase “dance like nobody’s watching” became popular. I remember thinking it was true, most of my anxiety about dancing was a fear of being judged by someone else. I’d see other people dance and think that they aren’t doing anything special. They aren’t dancing well or doing crazy moves. They are just jumping around and having a good time. “Jump Around” was like just one of five hit dance songs about jumping. But I resisted because I thought people would think my dancing looked silly. And they’d be right, I was and remain a terrible dancer. I’m awkward, arthritic, and lacking in coordination and rhythm.

      But there was no social media. No cell phone cameras. No internet. If someone did get a picture or even a video, it might be months before a small select group of people saw it. Hell, even if your bad dancing somehow made the news, it would still only be seen by the regional viewers watching that evening.

      Today, if you’re a bad dancer, you could be filmed without your knowledge or permission, and become a viral sensation for millions of people to see.

      If I were young today, there’s no chance in hell I’d be out on the dance floor.

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          4 days ago

          I think businesses are already seeing the effect of a lack of similar action. Young people are going out much less, drinking much less, spending less, and as described in this article, dancing less. There are a ton of other reasons for that (income inequality, inflation, political stressors, health and safety concerns, etc) but social media has had a deleterious effect on the economics of social gatherings.

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          4 days ago

          Hmm in my experience of nightclubs a few years ago, I felt like I had to have my phone on me at all times because of the hazards cough creepy dudes cough, so I wonder how they enforce this.

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            4 days ago

            You can keep your smartphone but they have you put stickers over the cameras before you are let in. If you remove them you might have a one-on-one session with Sven.

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            4 days ago

            “Ask for Angela” is one attempt at a solution but the problem historically has been lack of training for club/bar staff to recognize and respond to the codeword.

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        4 days ago

        Exactly. Every person worries that they are one shaky phone video away from internet mockery.

        It worked out ok for this guy but only by a stroke of internet luck.

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          4 days ago

          And don’t forget, that guy experienced a shit ton of bullying before the hive mind decided that he was worth protecting. Most viral video sensations don’t get that second part out of their 15 minutes of fame. They just get the bullying and shame.

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    4 days ago

    “Everything is uncool and trying is uncool,” she said.

    Yeah this