Hi!
I’m autistic (diagnosed) and we (I + partner) think my partner is too(undiagnosed). From time to time, when my partner get overstimulated, they go non-verbal.
It is something that does not happen very often(the non-verbal bit) so they feel a bit unsure how to handle it. Especially as I am the first person who has been accepting of them going non-verbal.
I have never experienced it myself, but I want to help them feel more comfortable. I have no issue with them going non verbal, but they can get frustrated about going non verbal.
Do you have any advice for them and/or me?
Thank you in advance
Can they write? Or is this a total shutdown of ability to communicate?
If it’s the latter, depending on what is helpful for them, maybe just a hug, or something calming like some noise canceling earphones. For me, headphones can be a huge help when I’m overstimulated.
Otherwise just continue to be supportive, I think. They’re lucky to have someone who cares enough to ask.
Most of the time they can write. But initially it can be a compleat shutdown. I’ll check with them if there are things i can prepare to have in a “no talkie” kit.
Thanks for the tips