• ѕєχυαℓ ρσℓутσρє@lemmy.sdf.org
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    2 days ago

    If you think online groups are the same, I don’t have anything to say to you. Also, you’re blissfully ignoring that not everyone can do that. You mentioned that you have access to free midwives. I hope you realize that it’s a privilege that most don’t have.

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      Online groups, in person at your local hall, sometimes things require a little effort on your own and isn’t just handed to you.

      Having a parent there for them is also a privilege that most don’t have. If you look, you can always find the negative in everything. There’s options, I’m sorry that you feel the need to gatekeep them.